Here Are My Ideas For First Dates

first date Ideas

Hey guys something I have been thinking about, what are some good ideas for first date type situations. I personally believe that it depends on how far along the interaction is. Im going to assume that you have established some sense of trust, Comfort, and kclosed, or come close.

Some things to avoid: Restaurants! I hate when people always suggest taking a girl to dinner for a first date. I say this because of the pressure it puts on the interaction and in return you! Think about it, you would most likely be sitting across a table from her (a physical barrier between you two that will keep you from keno and Escalation). Not to mention it can get costly quickly and she will expect you to pay… that’s an issue up for debate.

Second thing to avoid is the damn movies! Why people why??? I just don’t get why you would take a date to a movie where you cant talk and run game! This just doesn’t make sense…

There are tons of others I would avoid but you get the idea. So lets take about some ideas we can do for first dates:

• Gun range- I know it sounds crazy and yes I am from the south. But hear me out here. I do this one all the time for first dates for multiple reason first I love to shoot and am very passionate about it. When you do something that shows your passion she will be attracted to it. She may not love it, but she will love your passion. So that’s a plus in my book. Next If they cant shoot it gives you an opportunity to teach them. This will build trust, and comfort. She will bond with you as you teach her something, and that always helps with you later in the night. You can make bets with her about shots and whatnot. You can kino.

• Cooking Class- A great way to feed yourself and her without having the annoying table blocking your progress. Same idea here, you are learning something together and sharing the experience. You can easily work kino and solid verbal and nonverbal game while doing this. Its not that expensive (at least not here), and you can have a blast doing it.

• Skydiving- Yeah I know im crazy trust me I don’t have to be told that one. When I do this I don’t tell them what we are doing I just tell them to dress really comfortable and pray that they have an adventurous side. And that’s what you aiming for, if you qualify her in the pick up it should be no trouble at all to get her to go do this. Its an amazing thrill. I can speak from experience here since im a licensed skydiver and have amassed a large number of jumps, the guys and girls on a dropzone are some of the most sexual people ever. They will make sex jokes so be prepared and plan to keep up. If your scared don’t be afraid to admit it nothing wrong with it. Just don’t be a puss.

• Salsa Dancing- one of my favorite dates by far. All the principles apply, you learn something, you share that experience, its not normal, and you can kino the hell out of it. In my town we have a local bar\grill that does salsa lessons on Tuesday nights and it works great.

I disagree with two things you mentioned. Dinner and the gun-range.
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There is nothing wrong with taking a woman to dinner for a first date. I did it last week, actually. I took her to a place I am well-known and happens to be one of the nicer places in town. After dinner, I asked her if she would like to go for a motorcycle ride. Of course! A block from my house, I put her window down and told her to stick her hand outside. As we pulled into my driveway, I hit the garage door Opener and pulled in. After the car was inside, I hit the garage door closer. I pointed to my motorcycle parked nearby and said, "That's my bike, come on inside." After we got inside, I gave her a full tour of my house. Then, we sat in the living room, in seats several feet from one another. After about a minute of idle chatter, I told her, "I'm tired. I am going to take a nap." I stood up, grabbed her hand and led her to my room. We spent the rest of the evening in my bed before I took her home and went to work.
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The other thing I disagree with is your gun-range first date. There is too much risk she is politically opposed to firearms or has had a tragedy involving firearms affect her or someone she loves. After you know a woman well enough to discard those two issues, it's a great date idea. Women are inherently better shooters than men. Just be sure you are teaching them properly
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Another date I went on last week was very "off the cuff". I received a text that said she wanted to go out with me. I then texted her back and said I needed a pic of her becuase I didn't want to look at a gray box every time she texted me. She told me to add her on Facebook. Done. I noticed her status said something about running like a cheetah with wind in her hair. I got her known schedule for the next week and told her I would let her know.

I called her a few hours later and asked her if she wanted to go for a motorcycle ride. I explained to her that the wind chill would be around 30 degrees and she would need eye protection and gloves. She said she would be ready at a certain time and I picked her up. We rode about 30 miles with a nice sunset backdrop. She had the opportunity to wrap her legs and arms around me while I was completely in control of everything. Then, we stopped at a coffee shop before going to her house. After spending some time at her house, I had her follow me to my place. For reasons that don't need to be discussed here, I asked her to leave without taking her to my room.
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Both of the women in the examples given work at the same bar. I met them while they were working and took them out on Monday night and Thursday night. I told both of them I had asked the other one out and was going on a date with them both. I've seen both of them since the first date.

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Other good date ideas:
Feeding ducks at a park.
Going to the zoo.
Miniature golfing.
Go-carts.
Arcade.
Dog park (borrow dog, if necessary)
Casino (need decent $)
Horseback riding.
Art gallery and/or museum.

One of the best places I have taken women on dates is a sanctuary for large cats. ie, tigers, cougars, panthers. Nothing turns a woman on as much as the presence of truly powerful, magnificent p*ssy.

I'm not saying dinner can't work, just don't do it as a general rule.

As far as the gun range issue- I have never run into any issues... Then again I do live in the deep south.

yeah these are good date idea but i tend to stay away from dinner and a movie. sh1t if we are hungry we can go get food but i always like the mom and pop shops. but yeah i usually do things that are original and fun. usually out of the ordinary! but i actually just thought about it. i might go skydiving here soon. that would be so much fun but i am SOO afraid of hieghts its crazy!

So was I that's why I did it the first time. It's a blast

im in there. the girl that i find to have more values than others, im going to take her skydiving! cause thats such a great date, they usually get really attracted after that

My point exactly.

I love the idea of skydiving, go-karts or gun range or anything really that is cool and fun for a first date, especially because if a girl was into that sort of thing it would probably mean that she's a pretty cool person but aren't some of those things kind of pricey and going against the principle of not spending money on a woman you haven't F-closed yet?

There is this one place around the corner from me where you can hire jet-ski's on the river and I've always thought that would be an awesome first date.

What I was actually thinking of doing though was to go there in advance and buy myself a couple of vouchers/day-passes whatever and tell the girl I was gifted or given them as a bonus from my job or something like that just to avoid the obvious fact that I've spent a fair bit of money on the first date...

I just wouldn't want to set a frame to a girl where she expects me to be spending money on her from the get go, know what I'm saying?

Wel yeah I goes against that rule but I don't buy into all the rules. Sometimes it's better to break them.

Haha yeah I hear ya man.