Need advice on a girl Ive known

Im a college freshman and Ive liked this girl since junior year of high school. At first, and she admitted this to me, she thought I was kinda annoying. Senior year came, and by the end were really good friends, and she said I tought her a lesson about how she shouldnt judge people without getting to know them. So now, her college is a block over from my house. Every time I come home from school, which is almost every other week, I try to chill with her( and her roomate...sigh...) But yesterday I took her to go visit our old high school,( where we met up with other friends). Then we watched the girls bball practice and had (finally) a nice one on one conversation. It came up that she is picky, especially with boys(which Im fully aware of) and she has a person she likes (not me).

Ive been trying on and off with this girl for years. Sometimes I dont want to deal with the stress of "chasing" this girl, but every time Im around her, I want to start. So now that Ive got it ingrained in my head that I want her, what do I do?

First of all, you need to remake yourself to her. If she asks why you changed or got so cool, you could tell her you read that samurai contemplate their death every morning, and by emulating the samurai you have become at peace with death and have become a new man. You could also be honest by actually starting this, it's kinda cool and builds confidence, if its not scary (it really helps if you are sure you're going to heaven). Anyway, she is probably not going to like the old JBoogie. I recently got into the game and I have been gaming chicks who knew me when I was either engaged, or an AFC or both, and I have been pretty successful thus far by showing that I am a new man. So disengage her for a few weeks, perhaps a month, and focus on sarging other chicks. Then reengage her. Also, deal with your blatant oneism in the meantime - the sarging will help. You're AFC'ing bro - you should think of her as one desirable amongst a world full of 6.5 billion+ people, and therefore hundreds of millions of other desirables.

So, what you need to do once you've reengage her is pay attention to her friend. Make friends with that girl, make her like you, I cannot emphasize the importance of this enough. You want the friend to encourage and welcome you being around the girl you want. Keep in mind the Best Friends test, by the way, with these two. Also, your ultimate goal will be to Isolate the target, and have some routines for that. It is probably more important to merely know what not to do and what not to say, and to have great body language, than to have good routines, but the routines will give you something to revert to should you run out of stimulating conversation.

#1: sarging is meeting chicks and getting numbers. You need to stop what you're doing right now and order this book: Amazon.com: The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists (9780060554736): Neil Strauss: Books. It's your basic intro to pick-up artistry. Check out David Deangelo and badboylifestyle on YouTube as well. I also recommend Strauss' other book, Rules of the Game, which is a guide book for beginners.

#2: Your goal is not to date or get "in" with the friend, it's to befriend her and make her think you're cool, that's all.