Gf brought up her ex (quick read)

The person above who mentioned caring about yourself is absolutely right. Whether you're on this forum and reading this material because you want to become a PUA master or you just want to pickup some great info, part of this whole thing is the idea of becoming your best self. Being your best self will get you the women you desire or to wherever you want your destination to be. And to become your best self, you need to set standards for yourself and how others treat you. Trust me- when you convey (not talking, conveying) that you are at any time willing to leave for greener pastures instead of putting up with her bullsh1t a girl will get the message and change her behavior.

Appreciate the advice. Things have been good lately. I know she's in love with me now and hasnt acted up with me. The reason I didnt leave her is because I really like her.

BUT, I JUST saw something that pissed me off again online. (Yes I check her facebook from time to time- I dont have one). She joined a bunch of Facebook "like" things. I think they are called pages. Among the 30 or so that she joined was "
You might be my ex, but im always here for you because i love you

She doesn't know I go on facebook. I like to because she makes comments about how she feels about me (For example, that she loves me- I told her not to say it in person until I do). So I can't say anything to her about it if I want to have facebook as a way to look into her brain. But this sh1t pisses me off.

If I were you I wouldn't bring it up to her because if you do you will come across as jealous.

Dude I dated a girl like that for over a year. I left for boot camp and came back and guess what. She was farking her ex while I was gone. Get out while you still can.

Lifes like a highway if you stay between the lines, you can get to where you're going just DONT IGNORE THE SIGNS.

i couldnt agree with raven more, as i am dealing with a very similar situation. if she talks about her ex and how she isnt over him, then why are we there?? it's filling the void. when a girl gets her heart broken, she is vulnerable, and she"ll use anything that she can get her hands on to make herself feel better. i dont want to be the void filler anymore, and i hope you dont either. i want the girl to want me and only me - otherwise no LTR will come to pass. I wont even get into a relationship if i have any doubt of the girls loyalty. i would dump this girl in a heat beat, there are plenty of other fish in the sea!!

I have an ex who is still in love with me. And if she was in trouble I would do something for her. Granted, I'm not currently in a relationship, but that is just me. So in a sense, we have a piece of each others' hearts. We WERE in love, and shared a lot of experiences. It took me almost three years to get over her, and ultimately see that I could not give her what she needed.

Maturity in relationships is hard to come by. It is possible to love someone new (YOU) and still have room in your heart for someone old. It is human nature for us to be nostalgic about the past and care about those we love.

By now, you'd have been with her for six months. There are signs in your case, don't ignore them. But also don't suck up to her and act differently because you're afraid SHE will leave YOU to try and get back with her ex.

Her ex crushed her. Remind her of that. And start creating experiences you can share together. this will make her forget him faster. Otherwise, hit the highway. She'll deal with it.