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Old 03-16-2011, 01:00 AM
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So I posted a while back about how I had totally screwed it up with this girl. Anyways I somehow managed to salvage the situation and we started hooking up/seeing each other pretty frequently (1-2 times a week). She left for atlanta on sunday for a two week internship and after she landed i called her just to see if she landed safe (friend died in a plane crash few years ago so it's a bit of a phobia for me).

We talked for like 30 secs said she got there safe and she would call me later. Told her she didn't have to, I just wanted to make sure she got there in one piece. Anyways she calls me later and keeps me on the phone for like 25 minutes, but I made sure to be the one who ended the phone call, leave her wanting more or whatever. I told her I would call her in a couple of days to see how it was going. Called her today round 9:30 pm. No answer so I just leave a real brief vmail: it's *****, just wanted to see how things are going, ill talk to you soon.

Few hours go by, no answer. I didn't freak out, at least not to her, but i'm wondering, am i sweating over nothing? or is she ignoring me/letting me know she just doesn't like me all that much.


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Old 03-16-2011, 02:23 AM
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you're freaking out. Pretend you're busy. Wait until she calls you, and don't pick up. Wait until she calls again, even if she leaves a voice message. That's how you leave her wanting more. If you're hooking up 2 times a week, you're safe. It's casual, and you don't want to smother her. Unless you're trying to put the fire out.


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Old 08-18-2011, 01:48 PM
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bless ya,
play the game right you have alot of numbers, yeah there are always the girls you wish you called and the ones you wish you got, but fark it and fark them(no punn)
look if they reject you
say "their loss" carry on!

my rule of thumb for text game is
"if i dont know them reply to their texts the same amount of time it takes them to text you"
otherwise your too eager, eventually teh time goes down, so dont worry about it! sometimes they try and cancel on you whent hat happens call them on it
say "oh if you cant meet sure, can you give me another time you can meet?"
and if they cant give you a time then and their its more then likely its bullsh1t casue shes not wanting to see you anymore
say" ok well give me a text/call when you know wheny ou acn"
then forget about her, move on, new girl their are plenty of them!
best of luck old by and dont let the ones that dont realise what their missing get you down

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Well, start looking for other people who can show your importance. She didn't call you back means she's not interested.


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Well, start looking for other people who can show your importance. She didn't call you back means she's not interested.
exacly. move on. plent of women out there! who knwos when she sees how little you care and how social adept you are(when your with many other women) she may evenc ome back

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