She's spending too much time with her ex

Hey guys..

I really need some help at this problem.
The girl I'm with now is my first girlfriend so I don't have any ex's out there. Well I've been having a lot of one-nights and some that turned into a little bit more but this is my first GF .

Anyway.. She has in the last few weekends been spending time with one of her ex-boyfriends talking and watching movies (that is what she says) he is in some sh1t with smoking joints and stuff like that. Uhm I'm starting to worry that there is something more going on and everytime she is here she just says that it is no big deal and they are just really good friends.. My other worry is that in that time she has not been spending time with the guy she calls her best friend

So am I just being a bitch about it??

And Y E S guys in the time we've been together I've lost 90 percent of my game I don't know what has happend to me

come on guys.. I just need some thoughts on it, don't care if you are new in the field or an mpua.

I was in the same situation as you.

My ex kind of distanced herself from me about 6 months ago. She went with her cousin's ex boyfriend to the seaside and basically sh1t went downhill from there.

While we were "on a break", she told me she went to the guy's place, "stayed to watch movies" till 7 am and made her some food at 4 am. NOBODY does that with "best male friends", no matter how good friends they are. And NOBODY makes food that late unless it's after sex. And she said the same thing your gf told you, that it was nothing. In the end, she told me she was fark buddies with him and later found out from a friend that they were together.

And just like you, I was worried and lost my sh1t completely ( that's why I got registered on this forum and got back in the game ).

It was a big slap in the face for me. Hopefully it won't be the same for you.

@Sitfab

Thanks for the reply.. luckily she hasn't been spending the night there and lucky me I remember so much game to know that that is the line she is not gonna cross.. then she is outta here.. Funny thing happend last night, I was out and met a girl who was totally my type and I tolded her that I would stalk her on facebook.. no problem.. I texted her this morning and told her about all this sh1t (after flirting fore a while, ofcourse ) and she promissed to kick my ass if let her stay at any guys house and still be with her :P

But that is not happening I'm gonna take control of this again. any pointers how to other than talking to her??

my GF..

I'm not sure how to approach this problem :/

Since you said she was spending time with her ex in the last few weekends, this again should be an eye Opener. I don't know what your values are or your principles; for me, this is just plain disrespectful and is an issue that needs to be handled and addressed very soon ( a.k.a. you considering a break-up with her ).

And you not acting on it will result in even more and worse stuff like this. She will push it until you crack. Prevention is better than treatment, man.

Game the other girl. Break-up with your gf. You'll be saving yourself from some serious headache.

First off dude, since she’s talking to her ex, she needs to think that you are willing to walk away from the relationship at any minute. Girls think that they can talk/flirt with any guy, if they got their boyfriends balls in a vice grip.

For example my last girlfriend and I were watching a movie at her place once, and when her ex called, as soon as she picked up, I pushed her off me, got up and walked to my car. She hung up and ran after me, grabbing my arm and beged me to come back inside.

You're probably off your game, because you stopped talking to other girls, since you have a gf and use that as an excuse not to go out and sarge...bad idea and a lot of us do it. Going out sarging while in a relationship keeps you sharp and on your game. When your gf sees that you have other options, if you so choose to dump her, two things will happen. 1 her jealous side will trigger. 2 Your dhv will be at an all time high making her attracted to you.

My buddy is living with his gf, and every day she sees him skyping/facebooking/IM 10s of average to HB girls. She knows hes not cheating, but at the same time she’s in constant state of mind that she could lose him. It seems messed up I know, but if he didn’t keep his friendship circle of HB, she wouldn’t be as attracted/devoted to him and at any point could just walk away.

I'll consider it.. thanks man!

I've heard the disrespectful part a few times the last couple of days.. that is what people say to me... and they aren't PUA's that part she is gonna get..

Talk to ya soon

No problem, man. Keep me updated.