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Old 03-28-2011, 02:28 AM
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Default Damage control with older woman

Hello, I'am dating 3 yrs older woman (29) for about a month, and when we are alone, everything is great, but when we are apart ages makes a problem. Now she wants couple of days pause to think, and I do not like it. Seems to me that I am acting like AFC, and I am not like that! But I really like this girl, so now I do not recognize myself...

What to do? Wait couple of days to see or not?


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Old 04-08-2011, 04:03 AM
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which choise have you made this month?


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Old 05-04-2011, 02:54 AM
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Hello...I have no any idea about this thread.


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Old 05-04-2011, 08:48 AM
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Diagnosis: One-itis

Cure: Don't wait around and look around for other women. Let her know you are seeing other women in a subtle way.

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Maestro, I have been there myself, I have found that older women, need a very secure men to be besides them, since they are going to look around and see people notice the difference, but what makes all the difference to her, is that you don't act like it matters.

I have the same thing happen to me, a few years back, but now, i just tell them to shut up, that they are with me, and that they know i am more mature than anyone they know. I usually follow with "it doesn't matter about our age, people are going to talk, but i make you feel special and that is what matters. " But you have to be very secure in public, older woman don't need a kid, they need to have emotional safety, if you can provide that, you will be fine.


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