First date kiss rule?

Hey guys, I was talking to one of my friends and I kind of stumbled upon my first date rule when I was giving her my thoughts on dating and wanted to see if you all agreed?

I said since I'm TERRIBLE at "reading" women but I'm not attached to the outcome of a first date, if I want to see the girl again I will always go in for a kiss at some point before we part ways for the night. My logic being I've never gone out with a girl and had her turn away or brush off a kiss if she wanted to see me again. However when I was young and stupid I blew it with a few girls because I didn't make a move and they thought I wasn't interested.

Would you all agree that a girl who is into you is never going to want to wait till the second date kiss so you should always go for it on the first if you want to see her again??

Like I said I'm terrible at reading women so rather than guess I'd rather just make a move. I really don't give a frak if she turns away or blows me off because I feel she's doing me a favor. Either I know she wants to see me again if we kiss or I know she does NOT want to see me again if we don't. Either way I don't have to wonder about it or waste my time trying to set up a second date.

Agree?

Definitely going to start using this...

I will agree AND disagree.

I was with one girl, didn't kiss her kn the first date. But by the second date she was
All over me and had puppy dog dinner bowl eyes.

Now I always kiss on first dates, I have a date routine down pat that always works.


Soooo I guess I'm saying it doesn't matter

What's the routine?

I second jackman22, post the routine

Haha it's more a date routine everyone knows the 3gaze technique.

1:start with something fun (minigolf)
2: dinner. Listen to her. Women always love to travel right. Find out where she wants to go, what's her dream holiday. Then find a place that specializes in that area. (indian, Japanese, Greek etc you get the picture)
3: it's coming into winter here. So I take her to the beach. Go to a secluded spot I know and start a little fire and lay back under a blanket.
From there, if you can't get a kiss you must be fugly lol.

EVERY TIME I do this date routine they rave about it. They tell their friends, their family, hell they even post up on Facebook.

It's a setup that I have had tremendous success with.

I used to think minigolf was lame but EVERY WOMAN loves it, that was a suprise to me.


Now go forth and make up your own date routines you moochers haha.

Sounds logical. Minigolf is fun, an activity where you don't need to talk all the time, makes for funny moments, and creates opportunities to tease.

Walks by the beach and laying by bonfires is extremely romantic to women and will make the kiss easier.

Great routine, mate! It's going into my 'to test-list'.

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I can't stress the dinner enough. LISTEN to her!!!!

I had a date last saterday night. as per my routine I took her to a cool Indian place, its a dream of hers to travel around India. And guess what? She actually SQUEELED and was Sooo excited to be there.

Sunday morning I awoke to no less than 6txts along the lines of "lastnight was magical. Indian was amazing blablabla" . Later that day i had friend requests from atleast 10 of her gf's!!


Her social circle was buzzing about me!!!

-when you approach women and get a day 2. Always dig deeper than those boring questions. Ask where she has been, is she passionate about a certain culture? These questions will help you plan a killer day2

I like it! Here the beach is only about an hour away, so I can definitely try this out, and have some feed back, especially now, that we are about to hit summer.

You hit a very good point about listening to women, they will tell you what they like, and dislike, and you can increment of what they like to create rapport, Kino, and keep on climbing.

Nice info.

Just keep in mind you still need something to talk about after an hour in the car. Maybe something similar to the beach is better for you (like a sandbox .

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