ok.....
I am going to break this down a bit:
1 - good on the calling for Monday, made her wait a few days, and you were getting attention.
2 - did you attempt to create Kino at all?
3 - seemed like you guys did the same thing, those 2 meetings:
a- talked, dinner, and talked.
b- more of that next date.
4 - you need to stand-out not be like every other guys. Create Kino.
5- She probably got bored, i got bored reading the same over and over again.
6 - Don't contact her, you had two meetings, and you did everything let her do some work.
7 - let me know how it goes.
I don't know about you, but I usually create kino at the second meeting, and the first meeting i keep it as short, and simple as possible, with a chance of more.
Suggestions from now on:
1 - Let her do the talking, excuse yourself when you have her contact information, and go from there
2 - Don't do the same twice in a row. Example; first meeting during the week so you can excuse yourself quickly, second meeting start creating kino if possible, and let her know, you are looking for some action.
If you have questions let me know.