Girlfriend turns me down for sex.

Whats going on guys? I'm new to these forums, but not the game. I got a question and see what you guys think.

So me and my girl have been together for over a year. We have sex alot. Anyways the other day I drove home cuz I was out of town for a couple of days and she came over. I wanted to have sex and I'm going through the standard foreplay and sh1t, but when it came down to have sex she didnt want any part of that.

Ive never been told no to sex after Ive been in a sexual relationship with a woman so this is kind of new for me. So am I doing something wrong? Like does she feel too comfortable in our relationship and dosnt feel the need to keep my interest as much and can turn me down for sex? Or does this happen to other guys and its normal? Also how should I deal with this situation?

It could be a lot of reasons, you could have just asked her why.

Post a reply once you ask her

lol I'm not going to ask why lol

If you are in a sexual relationship, she should have no problem with you asking. .02

Dont neg her, don't ask her why not.

Play with your phone for 10min then start again. If it happens again just repeat.


Never ever ask her why not or neg her on it!!!!

She might not want to because she is on her period, unclean, not shaven etc there are a million reasons why she couldn't sleep with you.

But make it clear through your actions that you are there for sex! You are not an emotional tampon. Your not there to chat and play best friends. Be friendly.,.up to a point

Personally I think asking would be a unalpha move. Its almost saying dont you love me anymore!? Currentlly I'm just acting not as interested in her, as Im actually not. Shes killed some attraction I had for her from the way she handeled the situation. So I havent seen her since because I dont want to right now. Shes calling me at least twice a day since thats happened I answered but dont stay on the phone long and when she texes me I respond but as soon as possible I dont text back when its an appropriate time.

Im doing this hopefully in a way where she thinks Im loosing interest in her and she never pulls this again.

Good idea? Bad idea? Why? or why not?

Well, I have a couple of suggestions. Asking her does not mean that you have to lower yourself to unalpha status. You don't know everything that is going on her mind, and if i were you wouldn't want to know either. But women are emotional, that is they way they are. When the have sex with you, is because there was attraction but also there is an emotional component to it. It is very hard for a women to control those emotions, even with experience under their belt doing this. You can ask in a playful manner to get your answers. There are a couple of tools that i use to know for example a few things about a woman, so i am not left wondering. I will post that in the proper forum section.