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Old 05-23-2011, 12:44 PM
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I have a question. It is almost a general question, but happened to me right now, just want to know how to behave in general in that situation.
I met a girl short time ago, and we exchanged numbers. One day she texted me, I was kinda impressed that she texted me first. So I found out she is working a lot. but I decided to give it a shot. Since I knew that she is going to certain church, I asked her to join her and she said she wanted to invite me anyway.
So I went and after this she went with me to a walk in a park. It was actually a really good day, I had a chance to escalate, and she enjoyed it as well. The problem was that next Sun I was suppose to work almost right after the church. I still went to meet her, but after this I needed to go and was raining, so she said she did not want to go anywhere anyway.
Sunday after I wanted to go to other church and I sent her a text, "Lets meet after this". She said that she is not interested.
I was OK with it and I stopped texting her. Yesterday I got a text:

"A bless evening! How are you? Have a peaceful sleep, gudnyt."

What will be the best action in that situation?

In general, looks like typical church junkie, who wants to convert a guy before she will have any sex.
But I had the same experience with others before, at some point they start chasing you, and I almost never got them back. I either push them off too hard, or if behave like nothing happened they will stop texting at all.


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Old 05-23-2011, 04:20 PM
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stop connecting your meet-ups to church. There are six other days in the week.


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Old 05-23-2011, 06:02 PM
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OK, what should I do right now? Looks like there is a game on yet, off course I can just find another girl, but this one kinda trying to hook me for something.


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Old 05-23-2011, 06:07 PM
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Find and event that YOU want to do, either by yourself or in the company of others. Do not ASK her to join you in the form of a question, but tell her she is welcome to come a long.

While you're at it, find another girl. don't be needy.


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Old 05-23-2011, 11:09 PM
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OK, you might be right. What do you think about going to the event if I am invited. I had that situation too and it led nowhere, is it like the way of loosing leadership attitude?


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