How to know if your girlfriend is cheating on you.

Hey guys, I'm a little paranoid here. First of all, I'm dating this girl I've known for a couple of years, but been official for 3 months. We both said that cheating on each other is the last thing we'd ever do blah blah blah. She's pretty shy and insecure. Today when I logged into facebook from a friends account, I saw her profile for the first time. There was no mention of my name anywhere. Her relationship status is single (bullsh1t) and all these random guys that I'd never heard of were hitting on her, some saying they sent her texts and to check her phone, every single post was from a guy. And she's lapping up the attention like a dog that's been stuck in a desert for 10 days and finally finding a swimming pool. (bad analogy) Now I know its normal for a girl to hang out with guys etc, but still, how do I know for sure?

You don't, but most likely she is. I say that because she is feeding you the cheating is wrong bs.

Actually you can tell if she's cheating on you or lying to you.

Suppose we have a situation where you TRULY suspect her of something ( beware suspicious mindsets ). Ask questions about the event/meeting/whatever.

Lack of details and hesitation in her voice is deemed to be suspect. You can add to the story, if you'd like. ( "I heard there was a robbery/fire/fight/whatever over there" )

At this point it's essential to leave some silence between you two. She will try to fill it in any way. Just don't be paranoid.

If by any chance she gives you indirect answers, it's a hint. You can change the subject, to see if she will follow willingly ( to avoid the situation ).

Do check her body language. If she has defensive/subdued body language, it's a big hint.

You have already proved to us all her agenda. To play the dozens! Maybe its just for attention, Maybe its not; due to the fact many of them have her number.

In any event. Take events with a grain of salt, it helps your concentration. Focus on the future, your futere.

peace