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Old 08-05-2011, 08:03 PM
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may i get some justification on to why that one text sounds try hard? i dont use that rob a bank often because its a little lengthy but every time ive used it ive had positive results. so im just curious on your opinion of it.

but anyways thank you sitfab for all your help. hopefully i can recover. im going to text her in a few days and if she doesnt reply im thinking to just call it quits... but lets hope it doesnt get to that point


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Old 08-30-2011, 10:44 AM
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okay im back here with an update so if you can help me out thatd be amazing. so i took your advice which was great but then nothing. this is how it played out:

monday august 8
me: me: hey rambo lets make home made popsicles with vodka and sell them to the kids at the toronto blue jays game
HB: haha isnt that illegal? ps happy belated!
me: lol illegal? i could swear it was you who always said to live on the edge! and thank you, i am now legally obligated to show the united states of america how awesome i am.
sunday august 15
me: hey rambo... are you still alive? or should i send a search party of hello kitty dolls to come rescue you?!

-currently on a 15 day freeze out with her
-i tried cutting my losses and just get over her, so i know all this is all making me sound like an AFC but ive seen two other girls since her and but im still thinking about this girl
-my female cousin tells me its like a psychological thing, the whole "i want what i cant have"
-i purchased b4utxther because i promised myself that the next time i really like a girl like that again, im not letting my text game ruin it for me.
-she had deactivated her facebook a while ago and yesterday she reactivated it, so maybe i can send her message? i have 0 facebook game btw.
-she also works at a retail store manager at a mall, maybe i can "bump into her" there.
- some advice would be amazing, i feel like there has to be a way i can recover from this. thanks a lot.



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Old 08-30-2011, 04:53 PM
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-she had deactivated her facebook a while ago and yesterday she reactivated it, so maybe i can send her message? i have 0 facebook game btw.
I wouldn't go for the Facebook message thing. It seems too needy. Plus, it may backfire on you. You're more safer running text game.

Here's a little fun thing to do via text :

PUA : STOP !
Her : Stop what?
PUA : Hammertime.

If you're still seeing those two girls, pay more attention to them instead of her. If possible, have some HB's up your sleeve for back-up.

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-she also works at a retail store manager at a mall, maybe i can "bump into her" there.
No. Enough reasons why you shouldn't do this : Lame, needy, could see right through you.


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Old 08-30-2011, 05:31 PM
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yeha i thought going to her work was a bad idea, someone suggested it on the b4utxther forums. anyways, i dont think she is going to reply to the next one either even though your text is good. im thinking im just going to call her... what do i have to lose right?


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Old 08-30-2011, 05:58 PM
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lol no answer when i call... this girl is driving me insane! lol although she is probably working right now


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Old 09-02-2011, 12:39 AM
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wait until she is back. don't ever show you are a DOG wagging its tail! Don't Ever! She will see you as inferior, PERIOD.

Cheers!


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Old 09-06-2011, 05:35 PM
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forgot to say this last week, but i officially give up on trying to get this girl back. ive never tried so hard, and put so much effort into a girl before so it sucks but whatever, gotta deal with it. i just wanted to say thanks for all the help and advice, makes me really appreciate the community more. shows that everyone here cares and wants to help each other out, so thanks guys


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Old 09-07-2011, 05:18 PM
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Then don't send her Facebook messages. Wait until she gets back. Let her have her fun. If, however, she gives you a message, answer it, but don't initiate. OK, one will do. But that's about it.
agreed. she will miss you that much more.


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