Dating Advice Needed

Hey,

About a month ago, I started dating this girl who I knew through mutual friends. A buddy of mine had went on a few dates with her and he was overaggressive so she dismissed him. She just got out of a long relationship and seems to have carried some baggage.

When we started dating, I played it completely different acting as if I was not going to fall for her and I was the prize. Things were working well -- she would meet coworkers and friends but I maintained that these were casual events and nothing big. She even drove quite a distance to meet my friends, despite us living relatively close.

Shortly after traveling to meet my friends, she seemingly got a bit distant. We would hang 2-3 times a week, but she has been a bit busy for the last week. Essentially, she flaked on one hangout (played it breezy) and said would let me know about another time. Right as she flaked and said she would maybe be available later, I had said I made other plans and wasnt sure if I would be available. That is where I am at.

Now, given the baggage and all. I wasnt sure if a Freeze Out was appropriate. I do like her but do not want to become available at her convenience. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

J

call her on it, ask her what the deal is if your nto boyfriend adn girlfriend after more then amonth that may be teh case, just talk to her communication is immportant