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Old 09-01-2011, 02:42 PM
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Default How to respond to a womans 'hard to get' attitude

I'm with this girl at the moment who plays hard to get when it comes to things like kissing. If your interested in Pandora Box she's a NDI or hopeful romantic. I asked her why she acts like that and she says she 'has to'. How should i overcome that?


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that is a sign that she feels she is too inviting at the very least.

your goal is to have her uncover with Comfort to you about WHY she has to. then trust comes in

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Old 09-02-2011, 02:56 AM
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that is a sign that she feels she is too inviting at the very least.

your goal is to have her uncover with Comfort to you about WHY she has to. then trust comes in
That makes a lot of sense at the moment. Thanks for you help!


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Old 09-02-2011, 09:22 AM
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hey arcane or anyone since u read pandora's box can u help me understand this paragraphe plz
I can tell you’re not just a silly girl waiting to get swept away. I bet you have some area of expertise that no guy can even hang with. What is it? (whatever she says) – That’s so cool. I love it when a woman knows something. You’d be surprised the kind of lame ass Sh1t guys put up with. I know it goes both ways – that’s why I’m glad we are different.

what lame ass sh1t and different how? plz answer u're like the 5th person i've asked and i don't want to know if it's the right thing to say or not or anyone's advice on it or on pandora's box i just want to know what it means cuz i have bad englih
btw thats for the connaisseur


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hey arcane or anyone since u read pandora's box can u help me understand this paragraphe plz
I can tell you’re not just a silly girl waiting to get swept away. I bet you have some area of expertise that no guy can even hang with. What is it? (whatever she says) – That’s so cool. I love it when a woman knows something. You’d be surprised the kind of lame ass Sh1t guys put up with. I know it goes both ways – that’s why I’m glad we are different.

what lame ass sh1t and different how? plz answer u're like the 5th person i've asked and i don't want to know if it's the right thing to say or not or anyone's advice on it or on pandora's box i just want to know what it means cuz i have bad englih
btw thats for the connaisseur
The paragraph is kind of hard to read but I'll give it a go. Make sure you focus on her type. If she is a connaisseur that means she's an NDR. She's an investor so smart words and anything that might convey you as a player would act as a disqualifier. She's a denier so perhaps try and be subtle when talking about sex. Don't be too forward or put her in a situation that will make her feel like a slut. Build Comfort so she doesn't feel like she's being used. That's the greatest obstacle i've found so far with deniers. Lastly, she's an idealist so appealing into her fantasys may play to you advantage (in this case you could ask her about what she dreams about).

The thing about Pandora's Box is that there's a lot to do with understanding the woman, not just spewing sexed up words to get her into bed. Even if that is what you hope to do, use your curiosity about her type and her mind to give yourself a different vibe.

Don't suck up to her too much as well, make her earn compliments as you go along. Putting women on a pedestal will only put them further out of your range. Just be confident and keep her type in mind.

One last thing, be careful of whether or not she's a tester or investor. That mistake can be lethal and some girls do well to hide it. Hope this helped.


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