10-09-2011, 11:11 PM
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| | Re: Girlfriend no longer interested in sex / has gone distant
she needs to be wowed bro,
shes bored, maybe because things have been really routine, or really busy, or stressful and she needs something to change, but she doesnt know what
are you living with her? I found that when I live with a girl (lived with 2) in both occasions I became bored very quickly with them, and I salvaged the last relationship I was in by making her get her own apartment and living on her own, and sex was way more exciting as we had more places to do it in.
if you feel like a doormat shes probably feeling like she can do anything she wants with the relationship, so make sure she knows she can't, and that your the boss,
if you think things are boring sexually, maybe give her a really intimate night that shes in the mood for, if your always givin it to her hard, give her a soft night, if your always soft switch it up. show her your relationship has some variety.
My first relationship failed because of lack of interest on her part, when she came back I put her through hell twice over making her feel bad and broke her heart accordingly and I never ever ever let myself get back into the situation where the girl isn't interested,
so if you do lose her, don't let it ever happen again,
if ya don't good job bro