PUA's vs. Players

Hey guys,

I was having a conversation with The Red Baron the other night while we were out gaming and he broke this down for me and I thought it was something interesting to share. We are currently both gaming more than one girl. I just recently talked to the main girl I am hanging out with that I want to keep things open right now. She was pretty cool with it.

Back to what this post is about, I just wanted to give some back story to explain where this is coming from.

He and I were discussing that a Pick Up Artist is honest with the girls that he is talking with in letting them know they are not the only one. Most girls are actually surprisingly receptive to this. It is important to tell them BEFORE you sleep with them, and usually they are still cool with getting down in bed. This is the key to having multiple LTR's.

A Player sleeps with multiple girls without telling them what is going on. This is what creates issues and will backfire and create drama for you. Players also lie to the girls and tell them that they are the only one and are deceptive and slimy. Essentially they tell a girl that she is their girlfriend and then turn around and cheat on her. Obviously not a cool thing to do.

If you want to sleep with a girl more then once while seeing other girls, take the high road, be honest and tell her what the deal is.

What are you, and what do you want to be? Player or PUA?

Right on

i am currently none cuz i have one girlfriend that i love very much but i'm sad to say that i was a player i mean i never told the girls they are my girlfriends but i didn't tell them i was seeing other girls i will definetly not make that same mistake again i want to sleep with a lot of girls but i don't want anyone to get hurt thx bro for reminding me of that

I wish I was a PUA......... So just going to sort out my life, then maybe in 3 years I'll go to some seminars and sh1t... Hopefully I'll have plenty of inner game by then

Agreed. Personally I want to be neither. I want to be able to get any girl I want, But that doesn't mean I want to get with every girl I can. Yes PUA's make sure their intentions are known. Players like to lead people on. And just mess with them cuz they're afraid to be lonely. Look most people are only players cuz they got played! And have not let go of that sh1t since the 7th grade! Yeah you got your heart broke, Life sucks doesn't it? But your shouldn't Fck up someone elses life because of it. Someone did your mother like that! Thats why you're fatherless...

I see myself as a beginner PUA. However everyone I know calls me a player. The weird thing is I haven't ever had a girlfriend, I am a virgin and haven't even kissed... So how could I ever be a player? :s