How To Deal With A Girl Who Flakes

Well i'm in the middle of a comeback with this girl and so far everything is going to plan pretty good. I'm in the middle of setting up a time to meet (this will be the first time we have seen eachother in 4 years. Anyway i'm fairly certain that she is going to try and Flake out as a final sh!t test basically cuz last time I was waaay too clingy, oh to be young. I was lookin around for info on flaking and how to counteract it but so far i've been unsuccessful. If you could give me a few ideas it would be great.

A lot has to do with self control imho. Even though you may want to blow up her phone, etc. don't do it. Hold back a bit. Recognize the value you have and realize she should be working to get YOU. Even if she does Flake it gives you something to tease her about.

You should set up a meeting and then cancel before she has a chance to. Then don't text her for a while and see how she reacts. Give her a Sh1t Test.

Fratstar, I'd politely disagree with you. It's one thing to act like a male where we give them a taste of their own medicine, but let's demonstrate higher value here.

When a girl Flakes on me, I don't act disappointed or happy, i act neutral. Then the next time they call me to make plans, they will probably bring up how they flaked on you to see your reaction.. this is where you make them feel like they missed out on a fun night.

So the girl may say: "ohh.. I'm so sorry, I really had to do my homework last Saturday"
your response should be: "that's great! it's rare to find people so hard working these days, but you totally missed out on some dude that wore a mickey mouse suit and started dancing with my buddy."
She'll probably proceed eventually.." let's do somehting this week instead.."
Your response should be: "I have friends rolling in from out of town, I'll keep you posted on either you can tag along or if I can squeeze in a quick coffee in a few days when I confirm"

then wait 3 days, then get back to her with ... "I have slotted you for beers Saturday night, the first ones on you "

BOOM, no negotiations.

it's not pleasant to have this "ongoing war" with them.... rather, act like it didn't affect you, even if you're bleeding in the balls and heart.

Whatever works for you bro. I wouldn't say blowing them off once is an ongoing war. Just something to mix it up and throw them off a bit. It depends on your style I reckon. I like to make them chase me, that's where I get the most satisfaction and results.

Your suggestion would certainly work though.

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