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Old 01-18-2012, 02:23 AM
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Question Holiday Heat now total SILENCE

So this one has me kinda messed up

I am usually a guy that prefers the One Night Stand and girls that walk away but about 10 days ago i met a girl on a friday night and we hooked up.

She then came to stay at my house for 2 nights where she told me she was a traveler and that next week she was considering moving to another city.

In the 2 nights she was there we got really cosy like we shared a toothbrush,she hung with my sister,we showered together and she even commented how i made her feel better than any other guy and hat she felt she could walk around without makeup on

Anyways she kept dropping these little comments bout how she wished she met me before she planned to move and how i was making it hard for her to leave and how if we had more time together we could work so well.

So i said my goodbyes and as i went to leave she pulled me back and kissed me and told me to have faith she would be back and that she was considering only going away for a few weeks rather than moving and that she would be back in a fortnight

So that night we exchanged good messages and then the next day she moved away

2 days after she left i wrote her an email just saying i hoped she might be back and i wld like to c her again and all of a sudden,....SILENCE i got no reply
so i waited like another 3 days and tried to call her but she didnt answer so i left a brief casual message and that was yesterday and again NO REPLY.

I dont understand why she got so serious and then went to complete silence and i also dont know what to do next cause i have already put an email and call out there for no reply.

As i said i dont usually fall like this so i need some opinions please


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Old 01-24-2012, 07:04 PM
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Default Re: Holiday Heat now total SILENCE

I assume everyone finds this one odd given the 100+ looks and no reply so here is the UPDATE

I left it a week and tried to call her and just chat and see how it was going and if she had any interest but she didnt answer

Then about 3 days after that she posted a whole heap of pics on her facebook that we took at the beach together so i tried to start a fb chat and again nothing

So i left it a few days again but had well and truely moved on then a pic pops up on my ffacebook of her cuddling up to some other bloke.

At this point i decided to wipe myself of the situation so she was online and i mentioned we had a good time and i thought we would stay in contact and it was a disappointment that she never replied and then deleted her from facebook

Problem is something just doesnt seem right i would figure if she had a new guy and didnt want me to keep contacting her she would just tell me she had someone,could she have been keeping me on the backburner just in case or could it be she does have feelings and she is too gutless to confront them?

End of story is i have deleted her and am trying to move on but i am very confused

Feedback would be great guys


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Old 01-24-2012, 09:30 PM
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Default Re: Holiday Heat now total SILENCE

Back when I sold cars, we would experiment by putting a "Pending" or "Sold" sign on our hottest, show-room cars. And guess what? They got 4 times the attention.

Why?

People want what they can't have. It's the art of creating demand.

This chick played that classic trick on you dude.

You want what you can't have. Simple.

And next time you'll take a step back when a girl gets so personal so fast. That's usually a serious red flag and she's got some daddy issues. Run for the hills and find a chick who doesn't pull hit & runs.


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Old 01-25-2012, 12:38 AM
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Default Re: Holiday Heat now total SILENCE

that is kinda the feel i had all along,thanx for pointing it out nice and directly


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