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Old 01-25-2012, 11:55 PM
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Default Meet up, but she brought friends?

I am meeting up this weekend and I found out that she is planning on bringing friends. This would be totally ok for me since I could game them, but she did not ask me. We set up our meet via text and we both rarely get on facebook FB anymore. Today I noticed that she started a thread on FB and she invited people to come, a guy and a girl. I don't think she invited them for a threesome... However, I feel like she was being rude. How should I proceed?... I don't want to put up with this girl's BS. I could be direct and just say:

I appreciate that you invited your friends but I am interested in talking to you. I want to see where you are in life and perhaps if I like what I see and that we have a great time together we can see each other again or just become friends. I am asking for you to meet me halfway. Does that sound fair?

or???
Remaining indirect could be a good idea, but my gut tells me direct may be better.


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Old 01-26-2012, 01:00 AM
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I appreciate that you invited your friends but I am interested in talking to you. I want to see where you are in life and perhaps if I like what I see and that we have a great time together we can see each other again or just become friends. I am asking for you to meet me halfway. Does that sound fair?
really?! thats too direct and it's a little blunt, it's almost you saying... screw your friends, I don't want to waste time and build networks with you, just if I like you, then we'll be fine, if not.. I might ignore you. so let's get less people involved and get it over with.

her bringing friends could be an approval thing, demonstrate higher value by being outgoing and befriend everyone that attends, if you guys have a great time, then ask her out privately again by saying... "I had a great time and would like to know you more on a personal level. How's dinner on Saturday night?"

you need to play a patience card on this one.


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Default Re: Meet up, but she brought friends?

That was an eye Opener. Thanks man. I am blunt and I speak my mind... sometimes too often. However, I was offended that she didn't ask me. Now I am wondering what kind of woman she is...she seems like the 'I am going to take control' kind...This may be interesting.

I sent her a text that is more chill and relaxed:
"That's fine. Could you ask next time? I would love to meet your friends. Instead of going to the park I would like to go to the mall. I know a really good place to get tea, especially on a cold day."


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