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Old 01-29-2012, 12:00 PM
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Default Is Day Game Supposed to be this Hard?

The title is the question. I ask this because, literally, 100% of the women I approach already have boy friends (I am new to dating btw, and I am 23 years old). I'm thinking that it just might be bad luck that 100% of the women I meet are in relationships, but I also believe that I am doing something wrong here. As I approach a woman she will almost always laugh, blush, and say nice things to me. I would open with words like, "I came down here from the second floor because I thought you were really cute" (this makes them blush and laugh). As I am conversing with them I attempt to make eye contact, only to see that they immediately look another direction (this would be their own fault, wouldn't it?). After a "good" convo I find out that they have a bf already (this literally happens 100% of the time).

So is day game really that hard? Should I only approach women in the night? I remember reading another poster's sig before, it said something like this, "I have failed more times than most men have even tried." Am I taking the right mentality on these situations? Thanks, in advance.

EDIT: Sometimes I even find out that the "taken" women don't really have boy friends, and I end up being center of their jokes for a minute. Seems like an overall low-quality person if they would do such things as that...


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Old 01-29-2012, 01:57 PM
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Default Re: Is Day Game Supposed to be this Hard?

Girls will tell you they already have boyfriends a lot during day game. Half of them don't. If they say that they don't, that's an immediate ioi. Sasha came up with a way to counter the 'I have a boyfriend', although I'm not sure if it really works. If you want to see it, I know a video where he does so like 4 or 5 times. To view it, go to Youtube. Search for 'Sasha PUA', and click the 3rd video (Direct Number Close - Infield Approach by Sasha Daygame).

Oh, and BTW: something is NEVER their fault. If you start to blame others you will only become frustrated because you can't do anything about it. Everything that happens is within your control and works or doesn't because of the way YOU act. In this particular case, are you coming in with a smile when you open and then toning that down a little, only smiling when smiling is due?


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Old 01-29-2012, 03:12 PM
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Default Re: Is Day Game Supposed to be this Hard?

Thanks for the critique, I'll look at that video later. I smile quite often but not the entire time, because that would seem a little weird.


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Old 01-29-2012, 05:00 PM
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Default Re: Is Day Game Supposed to be this Hard?

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So is day game really that hard? Should I only approach women in the night? I remember reading another poster's sig before, it said something like this, "I have failed more times than most men have even tried." Am I taking the right mentality on these situations? Thanks, in advance.



It's not "supposed" to be anything. There is no master designer sitting back laughing when you fail.

Women often lie about having a boyfriend. You know this. Some even wear engagement/wedding rings to appear unavailable.
However, some woemn lie about having a boyfirend when they actually do.

The problem is not with the women, especially, if they look away when you make eye contact. You aren't connecting with them on a level with sufficient trust and intrigue.

Tell us more about these approaches. Clothes, activities, locations, moving/stationary, etc.

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I watched the video, Sasha looks like a good PUA. But I honestly think he could have dressed better.

If you want to know, I like to Peacock. I buy clothes from companies like Marc Ecko, Perry Ellis, pretty much anything that looks good since the brand doesn't matter to me. Button downs happen to be my favorite, and I am not afraid to wear geek clothing either (there is this shirt I have that says "Beast Mode" on it, then I also have a World of Warcraft sweater).

My locations vary, I'll try my college, job, gym, mall, anything. Sound good? I haven't tried clubs yet though. Last club I went to was when I was 19 years old lol.


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Default Re: Is Day Game Supposed to be this Hard?

What areas do you day game? There are certain places that are just much better than others.


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