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    Otto Ham is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Facebooking Message Gone WRONG

    This are two messages from girls I knew before i went to college.

    This is the first girl, We hooked up in high school, No sex, Just makeout

    Me: WOW...Didn't think you could get more beautiful than you already where, Lets meet up for lunch. Whats your number? That is if your not to far out of my league now...

    Her: Haha well hey there! I didn't know you were still alive! How are you?

    Me: STILL ALIVE!? What do think happend to me?

    I hope you can come up with a creative responses. I realllyyy dont want to put you in the boring girl catorgry

    Her: Well I just hadn't heard from you since high school haha

    Me:Sorry i've I went out last nigh and just now got home. Nows your chance, You have to act fast though Im scarce and wont be in town much longer []


    She didnt write back after this

    -What went wrong?

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    Default Re: Facebooking Message Gone WRONG

    Personally I think it started bad in the first message;

    Quote Originally Posted by Otto Ham View Post
    Me: WOW...Didn't think you could get more beautiful than you already where, Lets meet up for lunch. Whats your number? That is if your not to far out of my league now...

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    Default Re: Facebooking Message Gone WRONG

    Yea I came on to strong and showed interest, I was being self-deprecating and It was supposed to be sarcastic. Thoughts?

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    Default Re: Facebooking Message Gone WRONG

    Maybe you should have started with

    YOU: "Wow, long time no see, you are looking even more beautiful these days."

    Her response would have been the same:

    HER: "Haha well hey there! I didn't know you were still alive! How are you?"

    At this point leverage her comment:

    YOU: "Yeah it's risky being me, but I'm still doing great, let's get together and catch up."

    From there she should soften up to get her number, if she still hesitates then try asking her with some cocky&funny assurance.

    YOU: "Send me your number so we can get together (don't ask, tell), don't worry I will only call 9 or 10 times."

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    Default Re: Facebooking Message Gone WRONG

    Thanks that was good advice,

    How long have you been doing pua?

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    Default Re: Facebooking Message Gone WRONG

    It has not been long for me, but I am at it all damn day. Don't forget to use the thank button on my posts =)

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    Default Re: Facebooking Message Gone WRONG

    Do you approach everyday? Have you gotten any number closes? If so have you followed up with dates?

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    Default Re: Facebooking Message Gone WRONG

    Nothing went wrong, you just asserted your confidence and tried to start a conversation the best you could.

    You took a risk and followed through with it, in time this experience will gauge what you will subconsciously steer toward and away from.

    You practiced, something alot of KJs wont dare do. Keep it up

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    Default Re: Facebooking Message Gone WRONG

    What do you think about the way I opened it? I gave away my power, but followed it up with self deprecation. It showed I was joking but it didn't communicate a strong enough message.

    What's a KJ?


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