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  1. #1
    Otto Ham is offline PUA in Training
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    Default She played me dirty!

    I've been gaming this girl who I knew in high school for a week and a half, were freshman in college now. We hung out in high school, she liked me but it never went anywhere and we never hooked up.
    This all started when I got her number through a Facebook message.

    -Here is the full text conversation. Read it, critique it, tell me what I could have done better, what certain text means, or any opportunities I missed. It will be greatly appreciated.

    HB: Hey is this My name?
    ME: Yeah
    HB: Hey! It's Her Name what are you doing?
    - I waited until the next day to write back ( Probably not a smart move since its the first time we have talked in a year :/ )
    ME: Sorry I just got my phone back, Whats going on Her Name?
    (She didn't respond for a few hours)
    ME: I know you have a lot of guys texting you but we both know mines more important
    ME: And I have something important I need to ask you. ( I didn't have anything to ask her I just wanted to get her attention, I thought she was not going to text back at all, so i used this to grab her attention)
    HB: Hahaha sorry I overslept :/ but yes? Ask away
    ME: Are you still skipping school!?
    HB: Haha noooo I just didn't get any sleep last night
    ME: Up late doing something you weren't supposed to do?
    HB: Haha nope I've been good, I was working on a paper
    ME: I don't belivie that the Her Nmae I used to know is being good...
    HB: Yes yes I am! I got to know you my wild crazy time in life haha i've grown up
    HB: But what was your question?
    ME: I hope so... I really don't get along with girls who do hard drugs. Its kind of an important question, i'll have to talk to you about it in real life
    HB: Yeah I don't mess with that stuff anymore but just give me a hint! haha
    ME: Here's your hint: both me and you are involved. Any guesses?
    HB: Not a clue haha
    ME: That's a lame response. I'm going to bed. Goodnight
    ( No response)
    ME: (This is the next day) Your phone probably died and that's why you didnt tell me goodnight. Ill take initiative and start the conversation, what are you up to Her Name?
    (still no response)
    ME: Hey, what are you up to?
    HB: Hey just watching a movie what are you doing?
    ME: Kickin it with my boys. Trying to figure out what I'm going to do this weekend. What movie?
    HB: You go to My College right?
    HB: And adventureland my favorite!
    ME: Yea
    ME: That's a great movie, I love Ryan Reynolds in it. Are you a big Kristen Stewart fan?
    HB: I know me to! And noo I like Jessie Eisenberg haha
    HB: But do you like it there?
    ME: Gross you like that akward kid? yea i love it. its so much better than high school in so many ways, its been fun but College i'm transferring to is going to be better
    HB: Yess!! I love him haha ahhh I cannot wait to graduate and be out of town she lives in now but whats in town of the college im transferring t?
    ME: It's a college in new city that i'm going to for my internship. I'm going to bed I have a student government meeting in the morning. I'm coming home this weekend I'll text you then. Goodnight
    HB: Oh my gosh that sounds so awesome!! You'll have to tell me more about it tomorrow but okay goodnight!
    (waited two days)
    ME: (2 o'clock) je suis mademoiselle
    (no reply, texted again at 12 that night)
    ME: Does it always take this long to write back or do you just like teasing me?
    (No reply, Until 5 in the morning)
    HB: My Name! Are you still up?
    ME: No (wanted to show her that I was up that way a hook up could still be possible)
    HB: (This was her last reply at 5 in the afternoon the next day) Sorry I didn't text you back the other day I was super suppppppppperrrrr busy what are you doing?

    -What should I say?

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    Iron Woods is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: She played me dirty!

    I'm feeling that she really has the dominance in this relationship (if i'm wrong call me out). You need to 1.)quit asking interrogative questions and 2.)you need more apathy, relax, your response to no replies implies that you want her.. turn table. My response would be sending a funny unique text (lots of threads on unique text) and then if she replies ignore her for the day. Build Tension. Then next day or middle of the night send a text (no apology your a busy important guy) with an excuse, left my phone at home, was swimming with friends, ect.

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    Tyrone1991 is offline PUA All Star
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    Default Re: She played me dirty!

    why she laughing so much?, is there something wrong with her?
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: She played me dirty!

    HeyOtto,

    First of all she is NOT playing you DIRTY! I don't know why you titled your thread that way, as it has no significance to your interaction with her thus far. That being said, you both are freshman in college. Everybody party's in college. I agree with Iron Woods. She has the power in your txt games so far. BUild some Tension and then let her send you the last txt. ALSO VERY IMPORTANT: DO Not react or sound whiny when she doesn't respond back. That will only make you lose value.

    I would suggest you build some tension through txts and then invite her to a group outing with your friends/college buddies. Its pretty easy, your in college. I was just in PB in San Diego with buddies(college town) and we were walking to get dinner. We see two girls with their apt door open flat ironing their hair in their bikinis. I looked right at one of them, held eye contact and said "OMG I have the same flat iron"..... long story short they invite us in, we start taking shots with them and they join our group out later that night. Didn't close them, but you get the idea... Everybody wants to go out and party in COllege. Your girls no different. Invite her out somewhere to party. She won't say no.




    Make it look like your going to have a blast with or without her. Which you will.
    and the rest will fall into place...... Cheers

    Inter1010

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    FLo KT is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: She played me dirty!

    Make her work for your attention. It looks like it started off good, but then it looked like YOU were working for her attention. It's okay to try and get her attention sometimes like you did the first time, but after that STOP.

    Few tips that'll help you out:
    -Type a response but don't send it. save it as a draft, go do something and in 10minutes come back. That gets you distracted a bit and when you come back you can fix your reply so it doesn't sound BETA.
    -If you're not doing anything interesting at the moment, don't reply. Put on some music and go do something interesting then come back when you're in a better mood.
    -When you do reply, put the phone down and go do something. "fire and forget!"
    -If she doesn't reply immediately, SO WHAT? You'll be the last thing on her mind before bed, and/or the first when she wakes up.

    Texting is very unique~! Have fun with it, keep the ball on your court.
    An optimist says the glass is half full...
    A pessimist says the glass is half empty...
    An engineer says that the container is twice the size it needs to be.

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    Default Re: She played me dirty!

    i say something like "just was making comparisons and out of all that are in my phone you hold the title for being as slow as my granny in texting lol."


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