I've been gaming this girl who I knew in high school for a week and a half, were freshman in college now. We hung out in high school, she liked me but it never went anywhere and we never hooked up.
This all started when I got her number through a Facebook message.
-Here is the full text conversation. Read it, critique it, tell me what I could have done better, what certain text means, or any opportunities I missed. It will be greatly appreciated.
HB: Hey is this My name?
HB: Hey! It's Her Name what are you doing?
- I waited until the next day to write back ( Probably not a smart move since its the first time we have talked in a year :/ )
ME: Sorry I just got my phone back, Whats going on Her Name?
(She didn't respond for a few hours)
ME: I know you have a lot of guys texting you but we both know mines more important
ME: And I have something important I need to ask you. ( I didn't have anything to ask her I just wanted to get her attention, I thought she was not going to text back at all, so i used this to grab her attention)
HB: Hahaha sorry I overslept :/ but yes? Ask away
ME: Are you still skipping school!?
HB: Haha noooo I just didn't get any sleep last night
ME: Up late doing something you weren't supposed to do?
HB: Haha nope I've been good, I was working on a paper
ME: I don't belivie that the Her Nmae I used to know is being good...
HB: Yes yes I am! I got to know you my wild crazy time in life haha i've grown up
HB: But what was your question?
ME: I hope so... I really don't get along with girls who do hard drugs. Its kind of an important question, i'll have to talk to you about it in real life
HB: Yeah I don't mess with that stuff anymore but just give me a hint! haha
ME: Here's your hint: both me and you are involved. Any guesses?
HB: Not a clue haha
ME: That's a lame response. I'm going to bed. Goodnight
( No response)
ME: (This is the next day) Your phone probably died and that's why you didnt tell me goodnight. Ill take initiative and start the conversation, what are you up to Her Name?
(still no response)
ME: Hey, what are you up to?
HB: Hey just watching a movie what are you doing?
ME: Kickin it with my boys. Trying to figure out what I'm going to do this weekend. What movie?
HB: You go to My College right?
HB: And adventureland my favorite!
ME: That's a great movie, I love Ryan Reynolds in it. Are you a big Kristen Stewart fan?
HB: I know me to! And noo I like Jessie Eisenberg haha
HB: But do you like it there?
ME: Gross you like that akward kid? yea i love it. its so much better than high school in so many ways, its been fun but College i'm transferring to is going to be better
HB: Yess!! I love him haha ahhh I cannot wait to graduate and be out of town she lives in now but whats in town of the college im transferring t?
ME: It's a college in new city that i'm going to for my internship. I'm going to bed I have a student government meeting in the morning. I'm coming home this weekend I'll text you then. Goodnight
HB: Oh my gosh that sounds so awesome!! You'll have to tell me more about it tomorrow but okay goodnight!
(waited two days)
ME: (2 o'clock) je suis mademoiselle
(no reply, texted again at 12 that night)
ME: Does it always take this long to write back or do you just like teasing me?
(No reply, Until 5 in the morning)
HB: My Name! Are you still up?
ME: No (wanted to show her that I was up that way a hook up could still be possible)
HB: (This was her last reply at 5 in the afternoon the next day) Sorry I didn't text you back the other day I was super suppppppppperrrrr busy what are you doing?
-What should I say?