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    Default Today, the pizza lady. help!

    Okay so today at work it was a late day so me and the co workers decided to order some pizza. My good friend that i work with orders the pie. As we wait for about 30 minutes he gets a call from the lady delivering the pizza pie. She was lost so he helped her find the way to the office. Finally she arrives in the office. At the time I was currently on the phone speaking to a future client that I had just closed. In the middle of speaking to my client i glance over and there she was. Instantly I said to my self damn she's looking right and sexy so as soon as i got off the phone I brought what i thought of her up. Everyone in the office easily agreed. As everyone was agreeing with me the kid who ordered the pizza said "hey I have her number she called me from her cellphone when she was lost do you want it?" I said "yes lets goo!"

    So I sit there with her number thinking of what to say cause clearly she has no idea who i am. I started stressing it so I said eh fark it who cares ill just fark around. ( In the past when I would fark around leaving my feelings to the side I always did the best.)

    This is how it went... very short and i had no swag cause I couldnt find anything to build a foundation off of and to grow from there as I like to see it. Here it is lol

    Me: Hey the pizza was good but you looked better
    Her: Creep
    Me: Whos this?
    Her: U texted me..........
    Me: Oh yeh i deleted that right when i sent it. Figured you couldnt take a compliment
    Her: Okay But who are you
    Me: Matt clark the kid on the phone when you came it. Whats wrong with giving a compliment
    Her: How did you get my number thats just weird
    Me: Haha I know I got it from the kid who payed you for the pizza. I said to him you looked good so he gave me your number
    Her: Lol Omg how does he have my number!
    2 minutes later-- Her: Do you guys even know my name
    Me: you called him when you were lost lmao
    Her: Oh sh1t i forgot

    Thats all Ive gotten to. I dont know what to say and how to build a connection and go from there. My questions to everyone who reads this is. 1. What could I have done better. 2. How can I build from this with her and ect just give me your opinions and what you think I should do next.

    Thank you!

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    Default Re: Today, the pizza lady. help!

    I don't think it was horrible, Direct Game has its place and seemed to work ok here

    Next step, tease her somehow about ordering another pizza just so she delivers it. Or ordering something you don't even want. (this can go on over a day or two, maybe tell her you're Goin to do it on x day in 2 days)
    That morning tell her youve changed your mind on lunch or something, but use it as a transition to suggest meeting up sometime anyway
    Like: I'm sick of pizza do you deliver beer?....

    I think you can play this one out fine, stay on your game
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    Default Re: Today, the pizza lady. help!

    Ohhh man I'm sorry but that's a stretch. I woulda texted something else like hey you forgot the parmesan, but it's ok he (ur friendo) said you were cute.

    That text convo, it sounds a little defensive just from the awkwardness you probably sensed.

    But since it is what it is, just stay direct; like Red Baron above there mentions it has its place; don't be weird about it. Just say hey anyway my friend said I should ask you out blah and arrange another delivery or go in and pick up a pizza, maybe have your buddy do that- still seems like a stretch but go for what ya want bro.

    Cheers!

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    Default Re: Today, the pizza lady. help!

    yeh i agree that wasnt the right thing to say I went out on a limb and said fuck it. FIrst it was a joke then she started texting me back which was a huge surprise. I will definitely stay direct and confident


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