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    Unhappy "Gambler's Stealth Attraction" attempt

    Hey people,

    So this is my first post, so I thought I'd share my humiliating experience from last night with you guys. Just a little background about myself I'm an 18 year old asian dude studying at Berklee college of music in Boston. I recently got out of a relationship, and am looking to improve my game. I watched Gambler's Stealth Attraction recently and thought I'd give some of his tricks a try at this 18+ club that my friend wanted to go to. We get there and there's electronic music playing. There's 2 dance floors; one with a circle and a break dancer in the middle and one big group of people dancing, and then a bar where people are just chilling. When we got there it was pretty empty, i used to break in high school so I started in the circle with the bboy's. I went in the center performed a set, got some props and noticed one girl standing outside of the circle staring at me so i smiled at her and she just looked away. IOD. I decided to approach anyways. The last thing that I have is aa so I approached and opened by saying "Excuse me, do you know what time it is?" She didn't say a word, but instead took out her phone and showed me the time. I then thanked her and said it was my first time here and asked her if she had been here before. She said that she was here almost every week and then walked away with her friends. . I decided then to try out some of the stuff from Gambler's DVD. I went to the other dance floor and start dancing behind a girl and "accidentally" brushing my back against hers. The DVD says that if she takes a step forward, then she's not interested. If she stays where she is, you're free to approach. They all stepped forward... I tried some direct approaches as well going up and saying "How are you doing, I just wanted to tell you you looked incredible tonight and I was wondering if you wanted to dance" I think I tried that on two girls and got rejected each time (one had a boyfriend with her... awkward.) I went to get some water where there were two girls. I tried some of mystery's tactics. I approached the girl that I wasn't as interested in who happened to have a tattoo (as do I) I walked up and said "That's a sweet tattoo!! What does it say?" We talked about tattoo's for a little bit, she didn't show and IOI's.. Didn't even ask for my name. So I used a neg saying "you look like a eunice. is that your name?" by giving her an ugly name, and she was like "no, I'm Bri, and you are?" and I introduced myself. I'll spare you the rest of my attempted sarges, and leave you with that. I've never had such bad luck before.. I feel like girls at clubs (especially 18+ where they can't drink) will only allow really tall buff white dudes to approach them. the "alpha males". Whereas day game a girl doesn't expect to be approached. Plus I think my daygame is better. If anyone could respond with tips or anything it would be much appreciated (: Share secrets. Glad to be part of the community.

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    Default Re: "Gambler's Stealth Attraction" attempt

    well you shouldn't use direct openers (the time opener) at night-game in my opinion it's to impersonal she'll be like: "dude if you want to say something say it don't ask the fr*cking time!"
    neither should you open with saying how she is and then say she looks good and then expect her to dance... that's kinda AFC, while the tattoo opener is a real good one!
    as you see the other girls didn't reject you because of your looks it was your opener!

    You seem like you've got the balls to do it and are trying, but maybe spent a little time on learning some stuff about openers...
    if you wanted the tattoo thing to go better (I don't know much about your set there...) you should have made more jokes... oo and good one on the name neg that clearly worked well!

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    truebright is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: "Gambler's Stealth Attraction" attempt

    Haha good point man. Gotcha, is there any place I could go to find better openers? Or do you have any to share here?
    Cool man. Thanks for the tips, I appreciate it.

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    Default Re: "Gambler's Stealth Attraction" attempt

    here is some quick stuff I use:
    I'm still young and when in front of a club before i entered I try to open a big set and ask:
    me: "you know any good clubs around here?" (it's rude not to answer to this)
    HB: "well yeah we're in front of one!"
    *I laugh playfully* (careful if she's being distant don't laugh)
    me: "Yeah well I know this one you know any other?"
    whatever she says here can go multiple ways:
    she talks about another club and you can say stuff like "oo I heard it's a slutty place'
    and you can ask: 'where do you go?'
    field tested.
    one time I just had to say the first line and she asked my name and introduced me to her friends so that was awesome

    but this generally works.
    while in a club people are probably with they're usual friends and just dancing hanging out and maybe even bored... so just starting of with an opinion opener that also ignites conversation in the set is a good choice...
    opinion openers are like:
    'do you guys think it's normal to go on double dates with your ex?'
    some people like making it impersonal by adding the 'my friend' factor thus not making it about yourself...

    it also shows some balls if you do a no-opener by that just start talking:
    What a awesome day I went to do this bla bla bla tell and after a few lines ask something situational: are you asian?

    you can find a lot of field-tested material... I had a really good list but don't know where it is :S

    I'm tired and going out so I didn't take much time to write this but I hope you get the idea.

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    Default Re: "Gambler's Stealth Attraction" attempt

    Quote Originally Posted by saikia81 View Post
    well you shouldn't use direct openers (the time opener) at night-game in my opinion it's to impersonal she'll be like: "dude if you want to say something say it don't ask the fr*cking time!"
    neither should you open with saying how she is and then say she looks good and then expect her to dance... that's kinda AFC, while the tattoo opener is a real good one!
    as you see the other girls didn't reject you because of your looks it was your opener!

    You seem like you've got the balls to do it and are trying, but maybe spent a little time on learning some stuff about openers...
    if you wanted the tattoo thing to go better (I don't know much about your set there...) you should have made more jokes... oo and good one on the name neg that clearly worked well!
    Totally agree with this, however bro you appear to think too much, give this a go.

    Don't learn any more openers, just say what you see. Make it up on the spot, golden rule though don't speak about her and NO compliments or negs on the opener. Keep it neutral ALWAYS funny or clever not too cocky.

    This will sharpen your conversational skill to a point where speaking to a girl is just auto pilot. That's where you want to be.

    Hope this helps you dude, practice this constantly and pretty soon you will be so good you can move on to just finding a way that works for you to get them into bed.
    We are limited only by our creativity.

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    Default Re: "Gambler's Stealth Attraction" attempt

    Quote Originally Posted by AstroBoy View Post
    Totally agree with this, however bro you appear to think too much, give this a go.

    Don't learn any more openers, just say what you see. Make it up on the spot, golden rule though don't speak about her and NO compliments or negs on the opener. Keep it neutral ALWAYS funny or clever not too cocky.

    This will sharpen your conversational skill to a point where speaking to a girl is just auto pilot. That's where you want to be.

    Hope this helps you dude, practice this constantly and pretty soon you will be so good you can move on to just finding a way that works for you to get them into bed.

    I just go to the set and while walking I try to think of something if I can't I use canned material!

    I just keep me by the rule of fun
    I really enjoy this stuff and it makes my days more enjoyable and I'm just much happier with it!

    you're totally right by the way. (not too cocky on openers is a good point, I never heard...)


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