OK, I started going to a very popular bar where there is some heavy stuff going on. The girls are good looking and they are ready for action. The problem is, they seem a little too ready.
Basically, most girls look to touch and make out and the majority of them actually do. Just sipping a drink on a corner and keeping an eye on what's happening, you can see that the girls start kissing with guys after exchanging only a few words or in numerous instances without even that.
After they are done with a guy they move away. The girls seem to be leaving the bar alone -though I admit it is hard to keep track of who goes where with whom in such a terribly crowded place and I may be wrong.
However, the literature, as far as I know, says "if you want to sleep with a girl, do not make out with her in the bar/lounge/club". I have asked for advice in another thread on the "Ask the Experts" area, but got only one reply (thanks to the guy who gave advice; solid advice, but looking for more views on this)
So, long story short, what is the best way to handle the situation if a girl is looking in your eyes and obviously wants to kiss and likely make out, after a few brief words being exchanged. This happened last time and I guess it can again.... I am worried that if you do make out that fast, she won't want to see you again or wont' leave the bar with you.