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    octavianus is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Racy Bar Experience

    OK, I started going to a very popular bar where there is some heavy stuff going on. The girls are good looking and they are ready for action. The problem is, they seem a little too ready.
    Basically, most girls look to touch and make out and the majority of them actually do. Just sipping a drink on a corner and keeping an eye on what's happening, you can see that the girls start kissing with guys after exchanging only a few words or in numerous instances without even that.
    After they are done with a guy they move away. The girls seem to be leaving the bar alone -though I admit it is hard to keep track of who goes where with whom in such a terribly crowded place and I may be wrong.

    However, the literature, as far as I know, says "if you want to sleep with a girl, do not make out with her in the bar/lounge/club". I have asked for advice in another thread on the "Ask the Experts" area, but got only one reply (thanks to the guy who gave advice; solid advice, but looking for more views on this)

    So, long story short, what is the best way to handle the situation if a girl is looking in your eyes and obviously wants to kiss and likely make out, after a few brief words being exchanged. This happened last time and I guess it can again.... I am worried that if you do make out that fast, she won't want to see you again or wont' leave the bar with you.

    Thanks Guys

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    Default Re: Racy Bar Experience

    Where is this place at? Sounds good to me lol.

    Well if the girl pushes for it u can roll with it for a sec but pushaway and say somethin like 'that's all u get for now' or 'ok hey I'm not a piece of meat.' With a flirty grin. Classic kinda stuff taken from MM. Girls usually get real gitty once they feel like they're the one doing the seducing.

    Leavin them someting to wonder is good. My gf from last summer always wanted to make out with me in the bars, and as it turns out I don't like a ton of pda anyways lol, at least when there's ppl rite in ur space. She would get mad at me for it but when gettin home I of course let her know wat I like shhhh.

    Whatever this bar is u speak of that has these promiscuous girls man just hold ur game down and level the attraction I gueess.

    Game on

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    Default Re: Racy Bar Experience

    Yes where is this bar please? More info required haha

    I don't know where you are but the girls could be getting paid by management or getting free drinks from management - something to consider. If it's too good to be true its probably not.

    I've slept with many girls after kissing them in a club or bar.

    I like infrareds approach of playing a bit hard to get, you have already sussed out the bar before so you know what's going on and are less likely to be seen as gullible or overly excited. Walking away from customers after the kiss and leaving alone? Sounds like they might have an agreement with the establishment like many shill bars in Asia.

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    Infrared is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Racy Bar Experience

    Ya I agree white dragon there maybe some kinda deal there but I dunno ha.

    Cheers fellas

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    octavianus is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Racy Bar Experience

    I am absolutely surprised that you guys found the scene in this bar unusual. First of all, trust me, nobody is paying the girls anything to make out with the customers. There is no cover at the door and a beer is $3; so no way in hell the owner could pay even a dime to the girls. If he did, he'd go out of business in no time.

    Secondly, I think it is very normal for girls to make out with guy in a bar/club and then leave the establishment alone. I have seen this all over; in lounges, bars and nightclubs this happens all the time. Also, I read and heard in many sources that YOU SHOULD NOT MAKE OUT with a girl in a bar, because if you do, chances of sleeping with her later is lower. The idea here is that she will think you just want quick sex and if she actually agrees to see a guy who she made out with in a bar before, she's basically agreeing to jump into bed with him ==> bad for her self image.
    You guys never came across the advice not to make out with girls in bars?

    Now, how do you guys sleep with a girl that you made out with in a bar on the same night? I did pick up girls from clubs etc and slept with them on the same night on a few occasions, but I had not kissed them in the bar first.
    How do yo proceed if you had already kissed her in the bar? Go directly home?

    Thanks Guys

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    Default Re: Racy Bar Experience

    Quote Originally Posted by octavianus View Post
    How do yo proceed if you had already kissed her in the bar? Go directly home?

    Thanks Guys
    Yes exact that.

    It's more common to see kissing going on in clubs with a very young crowd.

    No cover charge, $3 drinks...so where's this bar again? Haha


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