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    thegreatpne6690 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Newbie here...NEED HELP!

    So I'm going to put down what was said verbatim....where I go wrong folks??

    Me: (speaking about her "generic" profile) So are you going to reply to this genuinely or generically?

    Her: I don't get what you mean

    Me: Hmm...well I guess we'll never know :/

    Her: Oh...okay?

    Me: Its unfortunate beause you seem like a great person...are you?

    Her: Yeah I am. At least I think so

    Me: Well why do u think you're a good person?

    All downhill from here...

    Her: Dude. WTF u just made a really bad impression, nice to meet you but bye.

    Help?

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    Default Re: Newbie here...NEED HELP!

    Pretty much everything you said was just wrong. All wrong. Your opener wasn't that great at all. Like I have no idea what you even meant. And seeing how she doesnt know you at all it was probably pretty weird and random. Then you go on to say she seems like a "Great person".. She was probably a little taken back because you don't know her. I'm guessing you've never met her. How are you supposed to know she's a great person unless your stalking her profile? Ya know? From her point of view you came off really desperate and honestly kind of pathetic. Sorry to be harsh but you need to seriously think about what you say.

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    Default Re: Newbie here...NEED HELP!

    Was this text or speech? I attempted online chat-style dating from my phone. For me, it was a complete waste of farking time. I sent out winks and pokes and "Hey's" and "Hellos" by the boatload. Almost no responses, and those that did were boring.
    I am NO expert on the matter.
    However, if you do choose to do the online thing, play the numbers. Your communication is strictly limited, so use good grammar be easy to read. If this had been in person I think you may have actually had some success, but on paper it was just plain weird. Push-Pull (was that what you were going for?) only works after she cares what you think of her. Look at her profile, read her description of herself (pure nonsense almost every time) and her hobbies (more reliable) and relate to her.

    She likes horseback riding? Type out a BRIEF story about the first time you rode a horse and whether you liked it.

    She likes gardening? Type a BRIEF story about how you tried gardening but you got bit by a spider or something. Don't bullsh1t, but be interesting.

    Just write the little 3 or 4 sentence story and push send. Don't ask her opinion on it or anything, just send a little interesting fact.

    Unless she's retarded she'll understand that you took the time to look at her profile (relates), are interesting (cute story), but not lurking (brief, and not asking for a response).

    That became my system and even then I got slim picking, and NO dates.
    I'm really interested to know if this helps. Good luck!

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    thegreatpne6690 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Newbie here...NEED HELP!

    Thanks guys...like I said, I'm new to all of this, so I appreciate the tips!


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