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    Default A day of firsts (my first day in the field)...

    Liquid here,

    This is my first real field report. Before today I could have truthfully said in any conversation that I had never drank a drop of alcohol and I had never initiated a conversation with a girl. After 20 years I have broken my perfect streak of abstinence. I felt the need to step out of my comfort zone and do a few approaches no matter what. Throughout the course of this day, I 'opened' 3 sets (if you could call it that). Here is how it went:

    Set 1:

    I left the house at 9 pm. At 10 pm, I arrived at the clubs area down town. I entered a club. A thin stair case led upstairs where there was loud music and dim lighting. As soon as I came upstairs I saw a 2 set sitting on two tall stools against the far wall of the room, a HB6 and HB6.5, they were fairly close to me and facing outwards so I approached without standing around too long. I came to about 5 feet from then and was facing my right shoulder towards them. I leaned over and shouted "hey girls" as they looked up I sort of pulled off. I then looked back at them and asked "I have a question for you, girls with tattoos... are they hot, or not?" They both said "hot", but were looking down at their phones . I pulled off again and when I came back I threw in an FTC "I can only stay here a minute, my friends are waiting for me". But then I couldn't stack forward immediately so one of them just started to talk to the other. So I said to her friend "what is she talking about?" In a loud sarcastic manner with a smile and my right hand snapping. "Does she have an off button?". She mumbled something (the music was deafeningly loud) then continued talking, I could tell this was a dead set. So I walked off.

    Set 2:

    In the same club, I saw two blondes a HB6.5 and HB7. They were sitting on a small round table looking down at their phones and they were sitting ahead of me so I could see their backs. I walked up to one side of the table and a little ahead of them, then I turned over the shoulder and tried the same opener. It didn't fly. Not only was the music too loud, but one of them looked confused and the other started laughing. I was coming off too needy and out of context. At this point I realised I really don't understand these girls or this club scene at all.

    Set 3:

    As I was heading home, on the bus station I was approached by a guy in his mid 20's. He asked me where I'm headed I told him my friends stood me up and I was heading home, it was only 11pm, so he said I should come with him and that his friend was celebrating his 27th b'day. So I agreed. At this new club (sort of Irish themed) after meeting some of his friends. I decided to open another set. I approached a 5 set, 4 girls 1 guy. I said "Hey guess what, Today's my birthday!" With a big smile and a glass of beer in my hand. One of the girls politely said happy b'day and the others were quite unresponsive. The problem here was again they were sitting and I was standing. So I immediately said "you should come celebrate it with us". Of course, I got rejected. One of them held a cross up in the air and said "that's a solid no". It was to be expected, I didn't game at all.

    Analysis of the day:

    I hadn't memorised any gambits. Most of all I understood nothing about clubs or girls and how they think. I don't even know if the mystery method would work in Brisbane, it seems doubtable. How are you supposed to get their attention whilst not looking attention seeking, especially in such loud music which forces you to lean in and shout? They are very unresponsive and rejecting of strangers. The clubs are only so big. If you walk around it even once or twice everyone will have seen you walking around aimlessly and it would be a dlv. Girls are excellently adept at reading subtle facial expressions and voice tones. How are you supposed to train yourself to truly sound alpha (like you have options)? In such circumstances, I couldn't be dominant and that was sub communicated in my postures and intonation. Even when I was rolling off and introducing FTC with a smile on my face and direct eye-contact, girls could still see right through me, or Atleast that's how it felt. Oddly though several guys randomly greeted me and started a conversation. There was that one I mentioned, another one in the line at the entrance introduced himself and started talking. Another black guy from Sydney shook my hand and talked to me. I also had a shot and some sips of beer, the shot was Alright but the beer was disgusting. Anyway that's my first ever field report it's called a day of firsts because so many things were literally the first time in my life.

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    Default Re: A day of firsts (my first day in the field)...

    First off i'm glad u got out of u're comfort zone that is a huge step good work that beeing said:
    I left the house at 9 pm. At 10 pm, I arrived at the clubs area down town. I entered a club. A thin stair case led upstairs where there was loud music and dim lighting. As soon as I came upstairs I saw a 2 set sitting on two tall stools against the far wall of the room, a HB6 and HB6.5, they were fairly close to me and facing outwards so I approached without standing around too long. I came to about 5 feet from then and was facing my right shoulder towards them. I leaned over and shouted "hey girls" as they looked up I sort of pulled off. I then looked back at them and asked "I have a question for you, girls with tattoos... are they hot, or not?" They both said "hot", but were looking down at their phones . I pulled off again and when I came back I threw in an FTC "I can only stay here a minute, my friends are waiting for me". But then I couldn't stack forward immediately so one of them just started to talk to the other. So I said to her friend "what is she talking about?" In a loud sarcastic manner with a smile and my right hand snapping. "Does she have an off button?". She mumbled something (the music was deafeningly loud) then continued talking, I could tell this was a dead set. So I walked off.

    U say u're FTC then u open then roll off, u do not open then roll off then FTC
    As I was heading home, on the bus station I was approached by a guy in his mid 20's. He asked me where I'm headed I told him my friends stood me up and I was heading home, it was only 11pm, so he said I should come with him and that his friend was celebrating his 27th b'day. So I agreed. At this new club (sort of Irish themed) after meeting some of his friends. I decided to open another set. I approached a 5 set, 4 girls 1 guy. I said "Hey guess what, Today's my birthday!" With a big smile and a glass of beer in my hand. One of the girls politely said happy b'day and the others were quite unresponsive. The problem here was again they were sitting and I was standing. So I immediately said "you should come celebrate it with us". Of course, I got rejected. One of them held a cross up in the air and said "that's a solid no". It was to be expected, I didn't game at all.
    That is NOT an opener plus u can not stand and they sit HUGE dlv i suggest u look up locking in there is a youtube video of lovedrop explaining it.
    I hadn't memorised any gambits. Most of all I understood nothing about clubs or girls and how they think. I don't even know if the mystery method would work in Brisbane, it seems doubtable. How are you supposed to get their attention whilst not looking attention seeking, especially in such loud music which forces you to lean in and shout? They are very unresponsive and rejecting of strangers. The clubs are only so big. If you walk around it even once or twice everyone will have seen you walking around aimlessly and it would be a dlv. Girls are excellently adept at reading subtle facial expressions and voice tones. How are you supposed to train yourself to truly sound alpha (like you have options)? In such circumstances, I couldn't be dominant and that was sub communicated in my postures and intonation. Even when I was rolling off and introducing FTC with a smile on my face and direct eye-contact, girls could still see right through me, or Atleast that's how it felt. Oddly though several guys randomly greeted me and started a conversation. There was that one I mentioned, another one in the line at the entrance introduced himself and started talking. Another black guy from Sydney shook my hand and talked to me. I also had a shot and some sips of beer, the shot was Alright but the beer was disgusting. Anyway that's my first ever field report it's called a day of firsts because so many things were literally the first time in my life
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    look bro u can't go out sarging without knowing theory and the mystery methode works everywhere in the world. U open wrong u will then surely botsh the set. U're walking around the club alone is a big DLV but u wouldn't be walking around a lone if u knew how to do A1 then transition into A2
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: A day of firsts (my first day in the field)...

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    look bro u can't go out sarging without knowing theory and the mystery methode works everywhere in the world. U open wrong u will then surely botsh the set. U're walking around the club alone is a big dlv but u wouldn't be walking around a lone if u knew how to do A1 then transition into A2
    When I do it properly and get a Number Close I will post it up then, I did make many mistakes.

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    Default Re: A day of firsts (my first day in the field)...

    In the next couple of days i will post a thread specifically for you on my routines and how i go about it if i forget send me a visitor message come to think of it try to send me vistor messages in stead of PM's unless it's something u think is private. But don't forget to look up locking in.
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    Default Re: A day of firsts (my first day in the field)...

    That was your FIRST attempt at sarging? 4 sets on your first day out, no instructor, takes balls. The fact that you are accepting responsibility for the outcome, and you understand that "failure" is a vital part of the learning process also puts you well above a lot of your competition. Respect.

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    Default Re: A day of firsts (my first day in the field)...

    You have just done what alot of men starting in PUA have trouble doing. Mistakes are made to build character and experience so you have a good outlook in understanding that you know you will mess up. Keep studying Mystery Method but just know that a lot of game is not just about saying something clever. Most is with your body language and HOW you say something. Try saying the same lines in a slower more projected voice and you will get different reactions. Also look into Kino. Studies have shown that just adding a light tap on the shoulder increases someones likelihood of being receptive to you by as much as 30% versus someone saying the same thing without touch. Do the same with guys. A light tap on the shoulder or back. Do it to the guy who looks like he's having fun. Don't need a black eye from a homophobe. Once you open the guys in the set they will usually side with you when their own female friends are getting attitudes. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: A day of firsts (my first day in the field)...

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    You have just done what alot of men starting in PUA have trouble doing. Mistakes are made to build character and experience so you have a good outlook in understanding that you know you will mess up. Keep studying Mystery Method but just know that a lot of game is not just about saying something clever. Most is with your body language and HOW you say something. Try saying the same lines in a slower more projected voice and you will get different reactions. Also look into Kino. Studies have shown that just adding a light tap on the shoulder increases someones likelihood of being receptive to you by as much as 30% versus someone saying the same thing without touch. Do the same with guys. A light tap on the shoulder or back. Do it to the guy who looks like he's having fun. Don't need a black eye from a homophobe. Once you open the guys in the set they will usually side with you when their own female friends are getting attitudes. Hope this helps and good luck.
    Yep, I still have to work on opening though, then I will thrown in some Kino. The body language thing is so true, you have to sell yourself as genuine even if it's a canned routine, or they're gonna see right through.

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    Default Re: A day of firsts (my first day in the field)...

    I'm a fellow aussie from brisbane! And i can assure you, pua works wonders in the clubs up here, just like anywhere else!
    It's all about study bro!

    The problem here was again they were sitting and I was standing.
    This is baaaaaad. When in a situation like that, you should grab a chair and just come sit with them. If there's a spare seat there, say something like "Mind if i ask you a question? I'll make it quick cause i've gotta head off soon" (False Time-Constraint). I remember seeing a video by the SimplePickup guys on youtube where they showed the "steal a seat" move..

    Also, voice projection is extremely useful, even in non-pua situations! Start talking a fraction louder! You'll find it weird at first, but people notice it as a sign of confidence!

    When you walk into a club, create some social proof! Walk around to groups of people and ask them the time or where the closest toilet is. Others around the place will take notice of this and think you know everyone!
    High-fives are always good! Everyone's keen for high-fives in brisbane clubs, and people take it as a sign that you're fun and confident!

    Mistakes are all a key part of it! You'll learn soon enough

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    Default Re: A day of firsts (my first day in the field)...

    Quote Originally Posted by KingBeau View Post
    I'm a fellow aussie from brisbane! And i can assure you, pua works wonders in the clubs up here, just like anywhere else!
    It's all about study bro!



    This is baaaaaad. When in a situation like that, you should grab a chair and just come sit with them. If there's a spare seat there, say something like "Mind if i ask you a question? I'll make it quick cause i've gotta head off soon" (False Time-Constraint). I remember seeing a video by the SimplePickup guys on youtube where they showed the "steal a seat" move..

    Also, voice projection is extremely useful, even in non-pua situations! Start talking a fraction louder! You'll find it weird at first, but people notice it as a sign of confidence!

    When you walk into a club, create some social proof! Walk around to groups of people and ask them the time or where the closest toilet is. Others around the place will take notice of this and think you know everyone!
    High-fives are always good! Everyone's keen for high-fives in brisbane clubs, and people take it as a sign that you're fun and confident!

    Mistakes are all a key part of it! You'll learn soon enough
    Yeah, I'm totally psyched to make some of my own routines and try them out. I really will treat this like an art form. Definitely learned a lot from this experience, I think the next approaches will not be nearly as tough. It's worth it to get laid man.

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    Default Re: A day of firsts (my first day in the field)...

    I don't like the idea of "routines" so to speak.
    I rather go out and have fun! I'll just make conversation and throw some bits of PUA in there and then, voila!
    Everyone has their own way of working


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