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    Default The formation of a friend with benefits

    So 6 weeks ago I meet this girl while on vacation. Shes a solid 8.5 to 9 depending on who u ask. Me and my friend picked up her and her friend went back to their hotel. He sealed the deal I came very close. Upon returning to my region (she lives 15 mins away) I began text game which led to hanging out a few times. Haven't sealed the deal and she played it off real hard to get I'm a prude I don't act like that normally bla bla bla. Tough to get her out (I know she has a daughter but she won't say anything about it saw from c-section cut and FB pics). Once comfort set it I began getting these late night texts. I liked her a lot initially (got emotional) then realized no way to have relationship with her so I changed my attitude toward her and she's more receptive now.

    Last night she calls me for the first time I was drunk off my ass basically a booty call. The night before I text her "btw booty call texts are acceptable until 1am thanks" to which she responded favorably. So lo and behold now its only a matter of time until it goes down. When it does I gotta make sure I hit it right so she comes for more. I don't want a relationship and this is perfect given the stage I'm at in my life

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    Default Re: The formation of a friend with benefits

    Sounds awesome. Keep it going and leave an update.

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    Default Re: The formation of a friend with benefits

    I like your text. It'll be good to keep that one in mind.

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    Default Re: The formation of a friend with benefits

    Hey guys. Update time.

    Last Friday I got the text again "lets hang out" but due to logistics we couldn't meet. I was in my urban pad whereas she lives closer to my folks (who are gone for 6 months). She basically said "ok next time"

    What I find fascinating about this situation is that SHE has turned ME into a booty call. Typically, its the other way around. So, now that I basically know what the deal is I play it cool. We message each other here and there...just friendly and funny sh1t. I have yet to initiate a late call and probably wont until we actually do meet up at my pad.

    I know the basic rules of the BC relationship. No public meet ups, no regular dates, no phone calls unless to set it up. Just keep it cool and dont let emotion get involved. Mind you this is a HB9 so it's been real tough to keep my excitement from showing but I have others on rotation so it keeps me cool. I managed to play my cards right. I have heard that successful BC's can last for years if played right. Given how bomb this girl is...I intend on doing this right. Will keep you all posted.

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    Default Re: The formation of a friend with benefits

    Great update man. Yea it's a bit of a turn around for them to call YOU for the BC rather than the other way. But regardless can't really complain lol.

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    Default Re: The formation of a friend with benefits

    Thanks batman. Question is, do I start throwing out the late night texts? I figure I should try just for fun. Got nothing to lose lol she's hit me up 5 times now. It was only this last time that we actually discussed. Every other time I either ignored, was asleep or too drunk to remember

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    Default Re: The formation of a friend with benefits

    Seems the dynamics are what you want so I'd try avoiding fixing something that's not broken. If you feel she has reached a point that she gave up trying then that's when I would do the texts. But be careful you don't give her the feeling you only text her because she stopped. She may abuse it and try to get you to chase your BC. So your first text may have to deal with something that you noticed in your day and had to share it with her. I know you're on BC level so these are just a few thoughts.

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    Default Re: The formation of a friend with benefits

    UPDATE

    So hottie comes over on Friday night...last time we spoke was Monday...put her on ice...blows me up at 1130pm saying "where the HECK are you!!"

    she comes over...havent seen her in 3 weeks...5th time we hang out...she makes out with me within 10 mins...straight mauled my ass. I'm looking fantastic...tanned.. .ripped...with my player gear on. She liked me but saw the real me that night (broke up with 5 yr gf in early April) as im recovering fast. Still wounded...but getting better.

    Here's the kicker: no sex! Tells me "i can count my sexual partners on one hand" spends the night with me...but we hook up hardcore.

    Now the game has changed...shes digging more and more. Taking her out on Thursday for Sushi.

    Going to have lots of fun with her. Solid 9. Friend called her "ruin your life hot" LOL

    So much for the booty call as BC's have little emotion and affection. This girl wouldn't let go of me even for a second. Had breakfast the next day with some friends...was touching me the entire time.


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