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    Default Approached at the mall

    Me and my wing were at the mall. Everything was going good till these two girls showed up (4/10 5/10 doesn't bother me though because I have had no success in the pass, I can't afford to be picky)

    Girls:Hey! You're so adorable and fun sized ! (To my friend he is very short)
    Him: Uh okay
    *Fluff*
    *They sit down on his lap*
    At this point I haven't said very much because I have anxiety and am semi jealous
    Me: Hey we need your opinion on something, do you think ____ is a good brand of t-shirts?
    Them: You're weird

    Eventually they got his number and texted them saying they wanted to meet up but without me coming

    And then I was shattered on the inside.

    Is there anything I can do to get over being akward or does it come with experience?

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    Default Re: Approached at the mall

    There may be alot of details you overlooked. Trust me you will keep making mistakes and keep getting blown out. Mistakes build character and you will learn from them because now you will have a story like this to tell new guys when you actually become really good with this stuff. Everyone started at AFC at one point or another. Keep going and get that experience and making mistakes. You will be fine.

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    Default Re: Approached at the mall

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    There may be alot of details you overlooked. Trust me you will keep making mistakes and keep getting blown out. Mistakes build character and you will learn from them because now you will have a story like this to tell new guys when you actually become really good with this stuff. Everyone started at AFC at one point or another. Keep going and get that experience and making mistakes. You will be fine.

    *Place Bro fist here*

    If I keep trying I will get the results I need.

    Thanks man

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    Default Re: Approached at the mall

    I think you might be too needy, lacking confidence and self respect because you go after HB4s and HB5s because you don't think you'll have success with any girl you really want. You have to work on yourself first, especially on the inside - AKA Inner Game. Work through this thread and you'll get better results with prettier women if you put in the time, effort and balls.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Virgil View Post
    I think you might be too needy, lacking confidence and self respect because you go after HB4s and HB5s because you don't think you'll have success with any girl you really want. You have to work on yourself first, especially on the inside - AKA Inner Game. Work through [ and you'll get better results with prettier women if you put in the time, effort and balls.

    Isn't it true that you shouldn't flirt with anyone that is more attractive then you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by dugus View Post
    Isn't it true that you shouldn't flirt with anyone that is more attractive then you?
    Hell no! Bro, even when I look like crap I walk up to beautiful HB9s that are slightly older than me (I'm 22 - I approach 20 - 26 year olds) and get great responses, smiles and instant attraction. Why? Because I am absolutely confident when I do so. That makes me a HM10. Listen, in your other thread you said you were readong "How To Become An Alpha Male". Read the pages I thought were good. Read it over and over again and incorporate it until you are an alpha male. Then start direct approaching using this method. It'll give you an amazing confidence boost and you, too, will become an HM10. That way, there will be no woman more attractive than you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Virgil View Post
    Hell no! Bro, even when I look like crap I walk up to beautiful HB9s that are slightly older than me (I'm 22 - I approach 20 - 26 year olds) and get great responses, smiles and instant attraction. Why? Because I am absolutely confident when I do so. That makes me a HM10. Listen, in your other thread you said you were readong "How To Become An Alpha Male". Read the pages I thought were good. Read it over and over again and incorporate it until you are an alpha male. Then start direct approaching using . It'll give you an amazing confidence boost and you, too, will become an HM10. That way, there will be no woman more attractive than you.

    So any man should be able to get any women. This is sounding too good to be true. Thanks alot bruh

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    Quote Originally Posted by dugus View Post
    So any man should be able to get any women. This is sounding too good to be true. Thanks alot bruh
    That's because it is too good to be true. I didn't say you could get any woman - some are taken, not looking for a man, or just not interested in you. What I do say is, when you've incorporated the material you're learning, you're going to be able to get amazing looking women. Not all of them, of course, but some of them. You won't be able to handle more than 2 or 3 of them at a time anyways . Remain realistic, but confident.

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    Default Re: Approached at the mall

    Quote Originally Posted by Virgil View Post
    That's because it is too good to be true. I didn't say you could get any woman - some are taken, not looking for a man, or just not interested in you. What I do say is, when you've incorporated the material you're learning, you're going to be able to get amazing looking women. Not all of them, of course, but some of them. You won't be able to handle more than 2 or 3 of them at a time anyways . Remain realistic, but confident.
    I think I understand now, thanks again

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    Default Re: Approached at the mall

    Ok, I read up on all the advice everyone is giving you and its been really good stuff. the only thing id add that helped me when i was an AFC is making affirmations. Write down all the beliefs you want to have about yourself. Make them strong and positive. instead of saying, im not awkward, say Im extremely confident. See how that sounds better. Im good with women and i deserve hb10s. write them down and put them in your pocket and read them every 3 hours. And any guy can get the hottest girl in the club. Girls dont care about looks as much as you may think. hope this helps
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