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    Saturday night, I'm meeting a bunch of friends out for supper at sports car. There's 5 guys, 2 girls including one couple. I'm the baby of the group, by 6 years. The only single girl is there, and its 80s night. I hate, loathe, and cannot stand most music from that decade, and she loves it. I made a remark about karaoke put there, and I haven't got people to go with anymore. She says to let her know, and she might come, so I put my phone in front of her and she gives me her number. Shortly, we decide to change venues. I've been drinking, so I ride with the couple and she rides with another guy. Our first choice is closed, so I text her that we're going to "Tavern on 4, sugartits".

    Obviously, I blew it. So, I sat at the bar, kept drinking and smoking. Typical night out with sleeper.
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    Default Re: Extended social circle

    Hey there sleeper, sounds like u did fine up until that point? Well up until u called her 'sugartits', ya that might be a tad racy for a girl u just met, unless there was inside joke behind it or something.
    So were going to meet her for karaoke? Might as well just say meet at tavern 4, bring ur high notes cuz it's going down! Or something, just to tease u know?

    Sounds like u can open, but need to practice a bit on attraction/and qualifying a bit. Find a nickname for a girl when u meet her, then u can call her that instead.Keep plugging man u can get it goin!
    Cheers

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    Default Re: Extended social circle

    She had hung out with us a few times, so I figured she knew our sense of humor. Oh well, I just talked to her a little yesterday. I'm not getting any where, but I'll live.
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    Default Re: Extended social circle

    Oh I see, well that's not bad man. You gotta mixed social circle there, which is a good social proof.
    Plus girls in your group are a good preselection trigger.
    If your not doing a lot of approaching, use them to your advantage, get out there, and you'll make an impression.
    Maybe you need to just go burn the fuck out through some sets for a while lol, well hopefully get some numbers, and you'll be back up with confidence

    I hope that reads into your deal a little more, good luck!

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    Default Re: Extended social circle

    What do you mean a "preselection trigger"?

    I could use some confidence, see my thread in the introductions.
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    Default Re: Extended social circle

    Preselection trigger- any somewhat attractive girl in your presence, who your friends with/or more, that will make other girls wonder, almost subconciously 'what's he got?' And naturally can bring up attraction to you, even from a distance.

    It's the 'preselection switch' in your target, which makes her a bit curious about you if your seen as fun and sociable with girls u already might know in the venue.

    You know right? Like just when u see a girl u think is hot, and then some fuckin guy comes up and starts talking to her, even if he's just a friend or somethin.. so it makes u wonder about her more, maybe a bit jealous.. but a pua will still go find out for himself

    Or in other words, it's like 'you gotta have money to make money' sorta lol.

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    Default Re: Extended social circle

    I think I got what you're saying. It's just never happened to me haha.
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