I am generally a shy kinda bloke so approaching women is a hard job for me. Especially when I am generally very bad at keeping a conversation going and expecially so in loud pubs and clubs. Unfortunately, these are about the only places I can get out to do so over here due to work hours etc.
Anyway, after an evenings drinking with 2 buddies (where both of them pulled and I didnt get the guts up to even try again ) I managed to get myself lost in the crowd from the 2 lads and the women they were with when we were on the street after the club closed.
While I was looking for them, I saw 2 girls sitting on a bench so I decided to sit next to them and got talking to the one nearest to me. She was definitely the hottest of the 2 and it was late (and my last chance) so I didnt give a fark basically.
I opened her with a basic "hello, how was your night" and asked where they had been earlier and (actually) got into a converstion with her. It defo helped that I could hear her which I probably would not have been able to earlier had she been in the same club.
I was very careful to make sure I kept smiling and keep my nerves to myself and I got a few IOIs from her. One of them was about me being a "happy smiley guy" actually lol.
After about ten mins, her friend was getting impatient and wanted to leave so I had to make my move fast or they would be gone soon. I kept the conversation going so as not to make it look like I noticed and when I guessed the time was right, I moved in for the kiss and got it .
I made out with her for over a minute and it was going well but her friend must have done something as she decided she had to go away with her after this but I managed to get her number before they left.
I reckon I was a bit too eager to get the number. I also rang it to make sure I had it taken down right which probably didnt help either. All went astray on me after the kiss but either way, I still managed to get the k/n close which was a big step for me and some of the advice I read on here when I was lurking did come into play though I admit I was after a fair feed of drink so it didnt all come back to me.
I did try to get back to her but she didnt answer the phone so I guess thats that (flaked) but a step in the right direction all the same I suppose seeing as how I conquered the nerves at the time so well.
Any tips on how to get the phone number without making yourself look too desperate?
Thanks for reading .