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    Default 1st sly N-Close in under 5 minutes & 1st stranger K-Close

    Last weekend, I experienced my first sly Number Close in under 5 minutes & my 1st kiss-close!

    I went to a single girl's Bday party at a bar & chatted with all her lady friends (social proof?) . As I waited to order a drink, a cute Persian girl appeared behind me. I'm never sure when women intentionally position themselves near me to order a drink if that's a possible IOI. She made eye contact & smiled so I offered to let her order 1st. She declined but was delighted (Side note, never underestimate the value of being a gentleman). When she spoke, I thought I heard an accent & commented. She was amused & we easily transitioned into chatting about geography, culture then cuisine.

    Here comes the PUA training I've learned from you guys. Normally my arsenal would go cold on non-personal topics like these but I looked for a mutual connection. She was really into Thai food & swears by a place near her house. I felt a surge of confidence & I wanted to test a sly number close method.

    Me: "That sounds delicious. What's it called?"
    HB names the place while I take out my phone, presumably to record restaurant info.
    Me: "You have to show me that place sometime."
    HB: "OK"
    Me: "What's your name?"
    I key in her name then hand her my phone without acknowledging the number transaction. She doesn't hesitate because I don't allow time.
    Me: "There are also great Korean BBQ places in town. Have you ever tried...blah blah"

    Guys, you must try this. It's an awesome dhv to be given her number without asking & while talking about something unrelated. I hate silent the number transaction. It's just not sexy. And BTW this happened in about 3-4 minutes. Lightning fast & it shifted her mood towards me for the night. Afterwards I started using a little kino for no apparent reason, just in the midst of an otherwise platonic conversation. I could immediately sense her moderate arousal & my confidence rising but we were still at the bar, surrounded by my drunk friends. Phase shift. Isolate. Again, for no apparent reason.

    Me: "Let's go over here."
    HB mumbles something compliant as I take her wrist. Now I'm wondering WTF is my reason for taking her to a secluded spot a few steps away. Got it, let's play a game.
    Me: "Do you ever play the game where you make up stories about complete strangers?"
    HB: "I love that game! Let's imagine their conversations!"

    Then she launches into all kinds of silly banter. I keep kino constant but brief. Another phase shift: I decide it's time to start building sexual tension so I grab her waist & gently pull her toward me. She gives me the greenlight look but I wasn't ready to kiss her yet. Instead, I start lightly negging her outfit with tons of kino. She self-qualifies & talks herself comfortable. I fall silent and just search her face, imagining the kiss. That action changed everything. She also stopped talking & locked eyes. I felt like a huge warrior looking down on a tiny damsel. She needed a kiss. Haha! This feels awesome!

    Me: "Have you ever kissed a complete stranger in a bar." (AFC line, I know. Don't crucify me.)
    HB: "Of course." Sexual tension dropped slightly. "Haven't you? Obviously you have."
    I shook my head in truth.
    HB: "That's impossible. I can't believe it..."
    Me: "You can be my 1st."

    She didn't know what to say, so I just leaned in & K-Closed. We ended up kissing several more times at the bar. I have been with plenty of women but I'm usually cautious with strangers. This was rad. And I think some friends saw...which is interesting. I took her out the following weekend which resulted in making-out at my place but I let her be the sexual red-light. I need to work on that aspect. What's a good F-Close thread?

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    Default Re: 1st sly N-Close in under 5 minutes & 1st stranger K-Close

    PS She just reminded me that I AMOGed a guy who was bumping into her that night! Apparently I smacked his shoulder pretty hard & made a joke about him spilling beers.

    I had almost no recollection. Maybe it's second nature now.

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    Default Re: 1st sly N-Close in under 5 minutes & 1st stranger K-Close

    Great story bro! I stayed home tonight! Glad someone is having some fun!!

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    Default Re: 1st sly N-Close in under 5 minutes & 1st stranger K-Close

    Sounds like an awsome night out! I love your Number Close and i'm definitly going to use that in my sarges

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    Default Re: 1st sly N-Close in under 5 minutes & 1st stranger K-Close

    Hey man. I'm definitely going to try this, good stuff. You really thought well on your feet.

    As for the f-close thread, I'd stick to Kino Escalation and prepare an LMR blasting technique.

    Good luck, bro. Let us know how you get on .

    : GeMiNi :&

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    Default Re: 1st sly N-Close in under 5 minutes & 1st stranger K-Close

    Quote Originally Posted by Gemini View Post
    Hey man. I'm definitely going to try this, good stuff. You really thought well on your feet.
    Thank you. My wing, Fastidious, & I have used this sly Number Close a few times now & it has not failed. However, a whip-smart HB7 shit-tested me in front of her friends when I handed her my phone. "Really?" she said very sarcastically. I laughed & said, "Yes, really." Then she entered her number anyway.

    I was startled & ALMOST qualified myself in the most AFC way by making a joke about her giving me a fake number. Instead I changed the subject. In hindsight, I didn't build enough attraction or common interests for the sly number close to work smoothly but we are texting a few times a day now though so we'll see...

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    Default Re: 1st sly N-Close in under 5 minutes & 1st stranger K-Close

    Bad ass fr. I read that Number Close before and cant wait to try it.

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    Default Re: 1st sly N-Close in under 5 minutes & 1st stranger K-Close

    Quote Originally Posted by Goostave View Post
    Bad ass fr. I read that Number Close before and cant wait to try it.
    I wish I could remember where I read it so I could give credit.

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    Default Re: 1st sly N-Close in under 5 minutes & 1st stranger K-Close

    Props man, well done. I'm going to have to remember that too, maybe put my own spin on it.

    Don't worry bout getting the f-close, your doing the right thing.

    dhv, be fun/decisive, make a cool date, social proof, try and get her to swing by your place before your date if u can, to build comfort in the 'pre-close.'
    Have entertainment ready and plan logistics a bit.

    Again well done, and good luck!

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    Default Re: 1st sly N-Close in under 5 minutes & 1st stranger K-Close

    Quote Originally Posted by Infrared View Post
    Props man, well done.
    This is just pure magic. I used it successfully again last night with a slight variation. Usually I get the girl talking about some place she likes but this girl was drawing a blank & I had much better suggestions so...

    Me: There's this (cool bar)
    HB7: Oh I have to see that place!
    Me: Yeah I'll show you, just a sec (as if im pulling up a yelp page but instead I open new contact & just hand her my phone while ignoring the number transaction)
    Me: Yeah the bar has (blah blah) and there's another cool place near there too. We will have to go there soon.

    Left the bar, texted her 1hr later:
    Me: Stumble home safe, Mrs. Hitchcock (common interest reference)
    Her: (immediately) Thank you! (Cool Bar) soon?

    Notice how we both used common interest references. 1st date in the works. Rock on, gents.


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