Last weekend, I experienced my first sly Number Close in under 5 minutes & my 1st kiss-close!
I went to a single girl's Bday party at a bar & chatted with all her lady friends (social proof?) . As I waited to order a drink, a cute Persian girl appeared behind me. I'm never sure when women intentionally position themselves near me to order a drink if that's a possible IOI. She made eye contact & smiled so I offered to let her order 1st. She declined but was delighted (Side note, never underestimate the value of being a gentleman). When she spoke, I thought I heard an accent & commented. She was amused & we easily transitioned into chatting about geography, culture then cuisine.
Here comes the PUA training I've learned from you guys. Normally my arsenal would go cold on non-personal topics like these but I looked for a mutual connection. She was really into Thai food & swears by a place near her house. I felt a surge of confidence & I wanted to test a sly number close method.
Me: "That sounds delicious. What's it called?"
HB names the place while I take out my phone, presumably to record restaurant info.
Me: "You have to show me that place sometime."
Me: "What's your name?"
I key in her name then hand her my phone without acknowledging the number transaction. She doesn't hesitate because I don't allow time.
Me: "There are also great Korean BBQ places in town. Have you ever tried...blah blah"
Guys, you must try this. It's an awesome dhv to be given her number without asking & while talking about something unrelated. I hate silent the number transaction. It's just not sexy. And BTW this happened in about 3-4 minutes. Lightning fast & it shifted her mood towards me for the night. Afterwards I started using a little kino for no apparent reason, just in the midst of an otherwise platonic conversation. I could immediately sense her moderate arousal & my confidence rising but we were still at the bar, surrounded by my drunk friends. Phase shift. Isolate. Again, for no apparent reason.
Me: "Let's go over here."
HB mumbles something compliant as I take her wrist. Now I'm wondering WTF is my reason for taking her to a secluded spot a few steps away. Got it, let's play a game.
Me: "Do you ever play the game where you make up stories about complete strangers?"
HB: "I love that game! Let's imagine their conversations!"
Then she launches into all kinds of silly banter. I keep kino constant but brief. Another phase shift: I decide it's time to start building sexual tension so I grab her waist & gently pull her toward me. She gives me the greenlight look but I wasn't ready to kiss her yet. Instead, I start lightly negging her outfit with tons of kino. She self-qualifies & talks herself comfortable. I fall silent and just search her face, imagining the kiss. That action changed everything. She also stopped talking & locked eyes. I felt like a huge warrior looking down on a tiny damsel. She needed a kiss. Haha! This feels awesome!
Me: "Have you ever kissed a complete stranger in a bar." (AFC line, I know. Don't crucify me.)
HB: "Of course." Sexual tension dropped slightly. "Haven't you? Obviously you have."
I shook my head in truth.
HB: "That's impossible. I can't believe it..."
Me: "You can be my 1st."
She didn't know what to say, so I just leaned in & K-Closed. We ended up kissing several more times at the bar. I have been with plenty of women but I'm usually cautious with strangers. This was rad. And I think some friends saw...which is interesting. I took her out the following weekend which resulted in making-out at my place but I let her be the sexual red-light. I need to work on that aspect. What's a good F-Close thread?