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    Default [FR] First time got girl to invite me in house.... but she wouldn't go for

    Ok so me and this girl were teasing each other who is better at bball. So I challenged her to a game, she accpeted and after a few days I met up with her. We played and I kinoed somewhat throughout the game(just flirting kinda). Anyways after we finish the game she invites me into her house. She sits on her livingroom floor and I do the same. We talk a little bit and are right next to each other watching tv on her floor. I keep on thinking to myself that I should make a move but honestly I had no idea what to do.
    I joke about my sunburn and show her my peeling skin. She keeps on touching it a little bit. Anyways we continue to joke around and whatnot. Anyways when we were watching tv she jokingly punches me. Then I do it to her back. After awhile I am tickling her. Then I immediatly go in for the K-close. She says "no". I just went back to watching tv and continued like nothing happened. We continue to talk but eventually she has to go.
    Anyways what do you guys think? Should I have IMMEDIATLY tried to do something with her as soon as we went in the house? I basically didn't do much Kino until we were in the house for 30m. Also when I tickled her I only did it for a few seconds before going in for the K-close. Any advice would be AMAZING!

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    Default Re: [FR] First time got girl to invite me in house.... but she wouldn't go

    What's you guys comfort level? Have you known each other long?

    Also you want to build attraction. Teasing and joking you can do with friends. So keep up the Kino, but you want to add some push/pull and other dhv techniques.

    Lastly make sure you QUALIFY her. Let her know that she is actually impressing you with her personality. You should have no problem getting a kiss after this.

    She is a woman so you wouldn't be the first guy to try and get into her "secret club" by trying to get her defenses down without buliding attraction. If you are able to understand a woman's reality then you are well on your way. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: [FR] First time got girl to invite me in house.... but she wouldn't go

    That was the first time I met her. I thought I did build alot of attraction but I guess I was wrong. Also how would I qualify her? I thought I did by telling her that I found her jobs and other hobbies intereting.

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    Default Re: [FR] First time got girl to invite me in house.... but she wouldn't go

    Qualifying usually works much better after she is attracted to you. Perhaps you could try some qualifications that are a bit stronger. Like if she makes you laugh say "Ya know. Its been awhile since a woman made me laugh like that" or tell her something personal about yourself followed with "Wow I haven't been this comfortable with someone for awhile. How'd you do that?" This implies she has an affect on you that you can't control.

    A good way to tell if she is attracted is compliance tests. A compliance test can be anywhere between asking for the time and having sex with her. Generally the more compliance you get will tell you how attracted she is. Like getting a phone number (which isn't always a guaranteed solid number). So just ask her to get you a drink or rub your feet and see how she responds. Then qualify her when she is attracted.


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