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    Default Picked Up Friend Of A Friend

    Hey guys.

    So, before we begin the three people involved that I will mention are me, my good friend/best mate's gf (we'll call her FG for friend's girlfriend) and the girl I (sort of lol) picked up (we'll call her AG for Asian Girl).

    A lot of my successes seem to happen with a mutually linked girl and when I'm not really trying. I seem to have some form on natural game this way, I just need to harness it and apply it to regular game.

    I was using some game techniques like push-pull, light teasing, the "don't give a crap" atrtitude and kino escelation, but these are, and have recently become more prominent, just part of my personality generally.

    So I meet some friends at the pub. FG and her bf come aong and FG has brought a new person, AG.

    Normal introductions take place. I lightly tease AG on her hair. (though it is awesome lol) It's kind of big and poofy, so I said "wow, I love your hair, its like a sheep". She seemed to take this in a good way lol. I also gave her a nickname playing on words using her name. I guess this is a factor because that develops something like an inside joke and a memory sort of thing.

    Conversation here went a little bit like this:

    Me: I love your hair, it's like a sheep
    AG: (laughing) Thanks
    I reach out to touch the hair (i know, bad move, should have escelated more)
    AG: Don't touch the hair! (in a serious but jokey way)
    Me: OK, calm down I'm not going to shear it.
    AG: (laughing) if you did, I'd kill you
    Me: (laughing) you're very welcome to try (I've done some kino escelation so I thought this would be ok) - I lightly pushed her shoulder- what you gonna do?
    AG: Pushes my shoulder in response and says "you don't want to find out"

    I guess this point helped too because of the playful shoving and arguing. It's childhood regression, women seem to love it, silly little games you played as kids work a charm, like thumb wars and stuff. Later I came back out to smoke and came to speak to her, put my hand on her shoulder, left it there for a minute and rolled off.

    Many high fives happen during this time lol.

    So my interactions with her at the pub were like that, more push-pull or none at all. We then make a plan to go to a club in the town as a group. Me, AG and FG go with some of my other friends.

    We get to the club and I put my arms around FG and AG and say "I'm such a pimp" they laugh. AG puts her hand on the hand I have around her (possible IOI), even when FG goes to talk to her bf. I left it there for a min and moved closer to the bar to get a drink and removed it (made it seem like it was unconcious and natural to me).

    I spend a lot of the first 30ish mins dancing with AG, FG and some other female friends. I play to this for social proof (remember I wasn't going for AG initially so I was carrying on as usual). Like spinning them and making big gestures so people notice and they see me dancing with like 5 girls.

    After about another 30 mins, I'm just dancing with AG and FG because the other girls went off somewhere else. We go outside to smoke. FG went to speak to someone else of the group who was also outside. Me and AG Fluff a bit and, I can't remember how this convo started, but I think I got another IOI.

    Me: It's all FGs fault. I used to be that guy who would avoid the dance floor at all costs, now it's almost all I do. Which is odd ecause have you seen me dance, it's painful (laughing), the beauty is I really don't care, I'm having fun, so who gives a sh1t what other people think.
    AG: I agree, plus I think it's great you're one of the guys who give it a go, it makes you fun (smiles and puts hand on my arm - IOI, i think)
    We fluff a little more.

    I continue with kino escelation. Later, AG keeps trying to convince me to go and dance with her and FG, drags me by the hand to the dancefloor (IOI) (I walk ahead and lead her instead). FG goes to find her bf. I dance with AG, we get close, like nose to nose close. I would have gone for the kiss, but I sensed some hesitation, a barrier I needed to identify and knock down. I went for a Freeze Out and was going to go for a Jealousy Plotline soon. Then, shortly after, FG texted me saying "AG likes you, don't fark with her, she wanted to kiss you". I was all like "crap, I have to put an end to this then". I don't deceive and from the sounds of that text, AG was looking for something more, so I decided not to continue with her and carry on a normal sarge.

    Later, I go smoke with FG. She tells me she found out AG isn't looking for anything serious, a bit of fun would suit her fine. I was like "hell yeah, game is back on".

    Went back upstairs, danced with AG, got the kiss (I'm dubbed a hero by some other friends I ran into at the club and some random guys lol).

    We go back to FGs place after the club shuts, her parents were away so we went back to continue drinking. However, FG and her bf had had a big argument so me and AG were sorting out FG. FG goes upstairs, she's upset but we decided to give her thinking space. ME and FG fluff a little and get close on the sofa under a cover (not like that you perverts lol). FGs sister, who is also a friend of ours, comes back from dropping FGs bf home and says someone should go to see FG, AG goes. We're all downstairs, FGs sister goes to bed, shortly after so does FG.

    Me and AG get close, kissing and all that, I go for sexual kino escelation, all is well, I'm gonna go for the fark (you know when you just know it's gonna hapen) but at that moment, FG comes downstairs and walks through to the garden to smoke saying "i think me and bf are gonna split up". I, being the great friend I am lol, follow her outside, follwed by AG.

    FG calms down and comes in. she decides to chill on the other sofa to watch tv. Damn. She falls asleep. Me and AG continue doing stuff, but farking seems strange because of FG on the sofa 5 feet away. Remind me to kill FGs bf lol.

    Next day she says it not something she normally does, doing stuff with random guy the same night, but it fet natural and comfortable. So, judging by that, I did something right lol. If i remember any more detail, I'll edit.

    Like I said, I seem to have some natural ability here, but I can't think of how to integrate it into normal game, I get that the fact I wasn't trying probably played a huge part, but I need to find a way to bring that into normal game. Any Ideas guys?

    Thanks in advance.

    : GeMiNi :&

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    Default Re: Picked Up Friend Of A Friend

    The big difference with your game is something you already know. Because you weren't initially interested, your game was very natural. When you are interested in a woman initially, you already have this filter that she has value (and possibly more value than you if you think she's hot) so then you're behavior would reveal that.

    This is where mindsets come in. You have to find a Mindset that fits you so that you do not prematurely give her that value. Some of things that help me will be paying attention to her physical imperfections so I can almost think she's disgusting. Another is that (it may not work for you) but to imagine that I have already had sex with her and that she was "ok" in bed, so it's not a big deal.

    So just try to find a mindset that works for you so long as you are able to take some of that premature value away until you get to know her.

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    Default Re: Picked Up Friend Of A Friend

    Thanks BatMan, I think you've hit the nail on the head. Its all about Mindset, you're right. I like your she was ok in bed mindset, that's great lol.

    I'll see what mindset works. Thanks man.

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    Default Re: Picked Up Friend Of A Friend

    Ive just thought, maybe that's the Mindset I need. The mutual friend one. I play Indirect Game more and, naturally, I wouldn't pay the target much attention and would play to the group. So technically that's what she would be. Thanks again, BatMan.

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