So I went to the club the other night and for the first time just started mad approaching girls. I made a total of 4 cold approaches and the first 3 were just kind of warm up quick sets not really wanting to get things going with them.
But then I noticed a HB8 and obeyed the 3 second rule and approached instantly. Well we hit it off and instantly she displayed an IOI by asking for my name. I gave it to her after hesitating since it was kind of sudden. Here is our conversation:
My first words to her were
Me "You here with anyone?" (This was because a lot of girls I was approaching had a man)
Her "No" and then points to her female friend and says
Me talking in her ear "I just came to say hi because you are flippin hawt." She smiles and says
Her "What's your name?'
Me "Bla Bla"
Me "You know you are lucky I am even talking to you right now because I don't just talk to any girl." (DHV spike along with push-pull)
Her "I'll take that as a compliment"
Me " Yeah but it is a loaded compliment." (NEG)
Her "You with them?
Her "Where are your friends?"
Me " I come in a pack but I am a lone wolf"
Her "Oh right"
Me "There's this afterparty what's your number?" "I'll text u right now to make sure it's not a fake number".
Her "It's bla bla"
Me "Get your phone"
Her "You're bossy" Looks to her friend and says "He's bossy"
Me "You don't know me girl. I am a niceguy at heart but a badboy on the exterior." a slight pause... "That's the only way you can survive in this world...
Her "Yeah you're bossy but I guess you're right."
Me "Okay bye Bla Bla"
I got the right number but this was where I lost my momentum because I had a bit of success and then contracted a bit of oneitis. I couldn't stop focusing on her. Later she started dancing with another guy trying to pull the jealousy card. It's sad because I didn't want to make her jealous by talking to other girls and I missed out on gaming a HB9! I am so upset about not gaming that HB9!? How do I ever recover from this?
This was a rookie mistake and when this girl started playing hardball I should have followed suit and started macking on other girls. What should I do to stay in the zone and keeping my momentum going? (How should I avoid oneitis?)