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    Default Need Advice From My Favorite PUAs

    Ok guys, hang in there.

    I met this girl when i went down to one of our companies booths. Same as ours uptown, their just not getting the numbers we are. So me and jay visit to teach them the ropes. As we approach I see this girl with beautiful green eyes. Now see when ever I see a girl im attracted too i often give them serious eye contact to gauge interest levels before entering. I wasn't holding eye contact for more than 4 seconds before her gaze got super sexual.
    I do this alot and I've never gotten that response....ever.
    When I come back the following week to help them with their sales techniques there she is. She instantly walks up to me and starts joking. As we're joking the physical contact increases, like she's Kino'ing me instead of vica versa and before I know it. Shes twirling her fingers around my hand.
    She asks for my number from there and a week later I took her out on a date. Usually I dont take girls to restraunts but I was hungry for some real burgers. The instant we sit down to wait to be seated she starts rubbing my back. Then, when we are seated she kisses me. We ended up not eating anything.
    When its done I drive her to her car but we ended making out and then having sex in my truck.
    Honestly thoa, shes a little clingy and I right now am searching for a girls that won't be seeking such a serious relationship, Im still trying to find what kindav girls im into.
    Now this is where i need advice. Im not sure how to tell her that i dont want a relationship with her, she already has hinted at me that she doesnt want me dating around, so I just need to find a way to tell her. No way we can be friends after sex. Do any of you guys have any way to break it to her lightly. I know this is a forum for picking up not getting rid of but in all honesty I know what its like to be on her end of the stick and I'd never do whats been done to me in the past.
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    Default Re: Need Advice From My Favorite PUAs

    I hope I made the favorite list lol

    Hey Rooster, you gotta give it to her straight. Tell her exactly how it is so she doesn't develop false expectations. You aren't planning on slowing down any time soon, and it's not that you don't like her, you just don't know what you like right now. You date around. That's just who you are, and if she doesn't like that then she can leave. That sucks, and you don't want her to, but you're not going to change for her. After saying all this you do need to remind her that you appreciate her and her company and would like her to stick around, just give you space and not be so clingy.

    There's a good chance she's not going to like what you have to say. There's also a good chance she'll leave. She might not come back, but I bet she will. Honesty will always top the best lie, and once she sees that she'll be right back by your side, doing anything you ask.

    Also, when I have this talk with women I don't make it a big deal. When you add weight to it you're only showing her how much it means to you. It's not a big deal. You have this talk with women all the time.

    This is also how you date multiple girls at once, with them being okay with it.
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    Default Re: Need Advice From My Favorite PUAs

    Cody is right. You have to tell her. My guess is that she will be very upset. Which is expected. This will be her initial emotional response and she is allowed to have it. Just be considerate and remind her you still like her. As long as you are easy on her and give her space to calm down from the initial reaction she will come back to you twice as attracted. Eventually she may grow used to your relationship and guess what.....you now have a booty call who is used to knowing you date other women. This process can take a few months but at least the worst will be over after you initially tell her.

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    Default Re: Need Advice From My Favorite PUAs

    Hey dude.

    Yeah, Cody has it down. Be straight with her. If you say it like its no big deal and it's perfectly normal, she will feel she's the weird one for not wanting to do the same. If you say something with enough confidence, people will buy it.

    I've said, and believe, why can't two people who like each other just enjoy time together for what it is. It's actually easier without the hassle a lot of the time.

    Good luck man.

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    Default Re: Need Advice From My Favorite PUAs

    My buddy was dating a B-list celebrity and she wanted to be exclusive - he wanted to date around. He told her this (which was golden) and she stayed with him for about 6 months before they both decided to move on (had nothing to do with him dating other women).

    Here is what he said:

    I really love being around you and it would be really hard to lose you, but I am at a point in my life where I am enjoying meeting new people and being social. Again, I would really enjoy to keep hanging out with you, but I owe it to myself to explore this part of my life.
    She didn't like it at first, but she stayed with him.

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    Default Re: Need Advice From My Favorite PUAs

    Brilliant Mr.Preston! Could not have put it better myself.

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    Default Re: Need Advice From My Favorite PUAs

    Jeez, this is incredible advice. Guess i shouldnt expect anything less from you guys.

    I'm going to tell her and see how it goes.
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