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    Default My commitment to fix this soon

    Some of you that have been around since past December will remember me, I used to be on a lot, posting frequently, always practicing my game.

    The past 6 moths tho I stopped dating other girls and focused on one i really liked, then quickly rebounded with another, but I stopped picking up new girls

    Now the last 2 weeks trying to get back into zen mode feels like trying to run a marathon after 6 months without stopping at the gym once

    I don't like using too much canned material, but recently when I've opened with the simple hey how's it going, I'm getting no reception

    My commitment - I'm going to fix this, soon. I'm going to get all my confidence back, that air of attractiveness and natural ability to flow with conversation that cant be faked. I'm coming back, and I have to say it publicly to hold myself accountable

    Any tips for learning to walk again are always appreciated. I know all the rules, I know what I'm supposed to do, but somehow it hasn't been flowing. Gotta polish the rust off the training wheels
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    Default Re: My commitment to fix this soon

    My guess is that you got to get your confidence back. So you would have to go out and start getting the groove back. But you already know that.

    Swingcat and DiCarlo have great material when it comes to "mindsets." I think it's a great place to start if you are trying to get your PUA reality back.

    As for openers I think the most flexible, classic type is a cold read. Not too scripted and with some practice you can get some really good responses. Welcome back!

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    Default Re: My commitment to fix this soon

    Good to have you back, Red Baron . We have a small, established group of guys who post here daily now and the forum is more active than it used to be.

    Good luck on trying to get back on track. Publicly posting your commitment really helps - I did it back in February and it helped me to finally start approaching.

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    Default Re: My commitment to fix this soon

    I experienced the same thing after nearly a year and a half break. For me it isn't the material, it's the nuance. The one thing you can't learn in the books is the subtlety of sarging, it's also the first thing to go after a long absence. Don't worry, log a few sarges and it'll come back. Good to have you back.

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    Default Re: My commitment to fix this soon

    Welcome back man. I'm psyched to see what you bring to the table.
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    Default Re: My commitment to fix this soon

    Thanks for the support everyone. I wouldn't be where I am today without the community

    With that said, it's game time :-)
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    Default Re: My commitment to fix this soon

    I’m back guys!
    *
    I was going to try to post a play by play field report for this weekend but it would be way way too long.* So I’ll try to summaries
    *
    Friday night I went out after posting on here, got 4 different numbers and was making out with 2 girls.* Had a slow start early in the night but I didn’t get discouraged, I was bar hopping a little and continued to open up other sets.* Whatever I was searching for I found because they were easy, and clearly I had developed some social proof by talking to many girls because I had a lot of them coming to open me.
    * By the end of the night things were going smooth again, a girl complemented me on my shirt and I instinctively smiled and put my arm around her shoulder, instant Kino going on.
    *
    One bad thing – I put my ring on a girl (I have this amazing ring with feathers) and was dancing with her, but this other girl pulled me to dance with her so I split and forgot to get my ring back.* My favorite ring I’ve ever had, coolest ring ever :-(. I have her number, and am working on getting it back, but no such luck so far.
    *
    So, 4 numbers, went well.
    *
    Saturday –
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    Got an invite out from one of the girls from Friday, decided to go meet her at another concert in the park going on.* Fell asleep tho and got out there really late, I called her but she had left because it started to rain, bla bla bla.* She was supposed to meet at the bar later but that didn’t really happen, oh well.
    * So me and my buddy went out bar hopping some more.* I opened a few sets, got sitting at their table, etc.* Nothing solid just fun.*
    * I was out talking to some girls at the next bar, teasing and having fun.* Some girl was saying she was convinced I was gay, I just laughed and didn’t give her a straight answer.* A few minuts later I hooked them in to a 3 way kiss, got one number but it wasn’t the hotter one, no biggie tho.
    *
    Opened some cougers inside, they were fun.* Ended up getting the hot cougers number and making out with her for a while, but she had to go back with her friends.* She called me later telling me how hot and bothered she was, etc, going to omit some of the details, but it was fun.
    *
    Sunday morning I got a lunch date with the girl I was making out with Friday night, but she had her 2 yr old daughter, so it was just lunch and a movie but it was fun.* Her and I have a different date set for Friday night again
    * (I’m in a different city for 2 months training right now, so anything I pick up is just playtime nothing long term)
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    Also I have a date with the couger for Thursday, going out to some boathouse?* I dunno, but I know it will go well.
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    Still working on getting my ring back, but I do know – I’m back in the game.* Glad to be here, thank you all for your support.
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    Default Re: My commitment to fix this soon

    Sorry about the formatting! I'm sitting in training so I wrote it out on my iPhone and copied / pasted it, so it's a little unclean, not sure how those stars got on there
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    Default Re: My commitment to fix this soon

    Well done! Sounds like you're off to a great start. Sorry about your ring, but dude, a three way kiss? How'd you pull that off?
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    Default Re: My commitment to fix this soon

    Appreciate the props Bandit

    That kiss was actually relatively easy, just follow the old rule - never buy a girl a drink till she's earned it

    Approach normally like you're going for a number, just make sure youve built enough attraction with both parties
    I had the set pretty warmed up I could tell they were both interested although the hotter one was playing a lot of games, she told me to buy them some shots and I said I would for a 3 way kiss. I got the skeptical look for a moment, but they decided they were in
    To be honest they're pretty awkward but just fun for the same of doing it

    Alternatively you could offer it if they haven't asked, "I'll buy you girls shots for a 3 way kiss"
    Just make sure they're having fun and youve built up attraction by then

    On a side note - my prospects of getting the ring back are looking weaker each day... And I can't overwhelm her or else I'll seem creepy and too interested, I really just want my dang ring lol
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