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    McNeggit is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default 2nd field report - tried to approach, but got approached instead!

    I went back to the open air mall today to work some more on getting past my aa. I found myself walking around from place to place, and it was a particularly hot day to be outside. Even so, there were a fair number of women walking around. Early on, I made some efforts to say "hi" to a few women, but many of them seemed to be in their own worlds and just continued walking past. I sat on a bench and doodled for a bit, hoping somebody would sit nearby, but it didn't pan out. I decided to seek out areas where I knew women would gather, so I got some coffee at the coffee shop.

    Unfortunately, no women sat down near me, so I finished my coffee and went to the courtyard. No sooner than I stepped into the courtyard, a black HB8 came up to me and asked me to take pictures of her in front of the fountains. I think my slightly-peacocked appearance helped with this; I've been wearing tight-fitting rocker t-shirts, jeans, some fake earrings (a la Style's kit in The Game), and I've been styling my hair.

    I took her pictures, and then conversation was exceptionally easy-going with her. She was very friendly, and mentioned that she worked at one of the department stores. Improvising, I adapted the cologne opener and asked her if they sold cologne, and if she could recommend a particular brand. This worked much better than expected; she happened to be the head of the men's fragrances department. She stated that she was wearing a fragrance that works well on women and men, at which point I asked her if she had some on her wrists. Instead, she had it on her neck, so she let get really close to get a whiff. I'm very surprised at how close I got.
    After that, we shook hands and parted ways. But I'm sure I'll see more of her soon enough.

    The whole experience gives me an idea for a new approach...I doubt this is an original idea, but I wonder if you guys have tried asking women to take your picture in front of fountains or other places of interest? Seems like a very logical and easy going approach.

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    Default Re: 2nd field report - tried to approach, but got approached instead!

    It's good that you're going out there, but you can only overcome aa by approaching women - not by sitting down and hoping they'll approach you like in the coffee shop. They're not going to approach you any more often than usual when you're out in the field.

    You did nice with the HB8 and by saying 'hi' to all hot women. Keep going out there

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    Default Re: 2nd field report - tried to approach, but got approached instead!

    So did you Number Close ? at least you know where she works, but if you show up there she might think you're a creep !

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    McNeggit is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: 2nd field report - tried to approach, but got approached instead!

    No, I didn't Number Close. I'll heed your warning accordingly, no sense getting oneitis.


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