So here's my report about the other night out at the Club.
This night was almost a winning success but came out to be a bust. So here's what happened. I am still a newbie and just recently been getting over my aa. I think my AA is pretty much fully gone now. I feel confident to approach women more regurarly without experiencing any AA when I am in the mood or out on the prowl. So last night was great however I was low energy and like "man I don't want to approach these women." So I made 3 approaches and 2 of them went well and the 3rd was a near soaring success but ended up being a bust.
1st Approach (No AA just mere hesitation)
So anyways I was low energy like I said and I was seeing a lot of HB's at the club the other night so I was thinking "I wouldn't run into any that night." Boy was I wrong! So anyways there was this HB9 standing at the entrance to the VIP section and I didn't right away approach. I wanted to at first but kinda hesitated to my indifference. So it was really crowded and I couldn't get through. I just stood with my back to the railing next to this HB9 waiting to get through. I noticed she was playing on her phone so I thought open her with that by saying "Who are you talking to?" I knew that was lame so I waited. When the walkway opened up I opened her. I had a lot of convo's that night but here's the gist of it.
1st approach HB9 our interaction Girl #1
I opened her by asking if she was in the VIP section that night, asking her who she was with (to weed out potential BF's), and asking her what she did. I did the holding out the hand thingy that Tyler Durden teaches and it worked! She had a bunch of stuff in her hands and reached her hand out. I should try that more. Anyways her friend (....) popped up out of the dancefloor and was grabbing her friend away from me. I grabbed her shoulder and said "wait" and pointed to her friend 1 second. So I said "Let me take you out sometime. What's your number?" That was pretty smooth I must say since I didn't ask for her approval just presumed the Day 2. I N-closed and left.
On a side note I never ask desperately for a girl's number anymore like "Can I have your number?" that's a major wuss move I have used in the past with no success. So I just ask more confidently now. So I texted her that same night.
Later that night I saw her again and her friend at the Bar and her friend saw me and was pointing right at me saying "That's him!" It was kinda obvious that this chick told her friend something about me (IOI) since I think she wouldn't have told her about me had she not liked me.
2nd approach HB8 our interaction Girl #2
All in all a chill girl this second one. What's funny is last weekend I got stiffled by oneitis with this one girl who I hit on and got her number. She started dancing with some other guy and making out with him and I lost all my momentum and stopped approaching that night. Well I had the same tendancy last night to contract oneitis since I saw Girl #1 at the bar and I wanted to stand around near her and stare but I brushed that bit of insecurity off and took off. Had I not done that I would have been staring at her the rest of the night likely like some panzy. But no! I kicked oneitis to the ground and kept it going. I approached my next target which I saw less than 2 min of leaving the area I was at near Girl #1. I approached Girl #2 and she kept looking ahead. So I approached and said 'Who are you looking for?" She said she had lost her friends and that she wanted someone to go clubbing with (IOI). I told her she could go with me or something I think. I told her that I "might" take her out sometime since I wasn't really feeling this chick like the last one. She likes to ski and I told her I don't do that kinda stuff. So I N-closed her and left.
3rd Approach HB9 (stunner) our interaction Girl #3
Okay here is the real game winner. I was pretty much out of it and aside from seeing Girl #1 & #2 I wasn't really attracted to a whole lot of other girls. Till 1:45 AM something happened...
Here's the lowdown.
I see a real stunner HB9 walk past me into the dancefloor holding 2 foam glowsticks. She was kinda older (35-36) I know she was a couger since she was older than me (29) but still this girl was smoking hot and one of the finest things I haver ever seen. Well dressed, tight shorts, blonde, nice big rack, cleavage hanging out, and really all around a bangable hot chick. So at first I observed her for an opener or a potential BF. She looked at some guys but then kept going. Seeing no potential BF's I looked at her and thought (she's out of my league and she will never go for a guy like me). Not to be confused with AA this was merely a sign of insecurity.
Now I once saw I chick back in my early 20's checking me out and then later started dancing with some other guy at another club. I wanted to go dance with her but didn't have the guts to even approach. I used to never even have the guts to do clod approach and I totally hated it and had huge AA. Now I have a lot of confidence and can do cold approach no problem. I used to resent the idea of cold approach having all kinds of pre-conceived notions that I would get slapped, have a drink thrown in my face, or have some girl yell at the type of her lungs "this guy is hitting on me" so she could embarass me and I would be running away in humiliation or something. So none of those things have happened and I actually am starting to love cold approach pick up! So anyways back to the girl.
Girl #3 The Unhappy but Exciting Ending
Going into this my philosophy was a little out of wack (inner game). I thought to myself I didn't want to be that guy who just "hits" on girls at the club and makes out with them. So anyways brushing off my insecurity I said to myself (Screw it) and made my approach. I was feeling like anything could happen so in her ear I was like "how did you get 2 of those?" (foam glowsticks). She didn't reply and didn't even turn around since I approached her from behind. Seeing this before from I have lost it and walked away pissed but I kept plugging. I asked her something again and was like "Are you having a good time?" Still nothing...Then poof bam she turned around saying nothing and looks right at me and starts checking me out hardcore! Not saying anything I was just waiting for something to happen. Usuing some kind of subcommunication this woman with her eyes told me she wanted to dance. So even though I never danced with a girl I was like "screw it" I am already here so I reached with my left hand and hit her purse. I navigated around the purse to her back. With my arm around her back and starting dancing up on her. I started getting real close to her and could feel her breasts. Man they felt nice up against my chest! I was just getting into it and pulling her in. Her eyes were going nuts with attraction signals. Her eyes were doing something wild like shooting back and forth really fast like she was checking me out hardcore and really liking what she was seeing. I knew it, this is the moment I thought! time to K-close. Unfortunately as I said earlier I had inner game issues and my philosophy was holding back cus I got punked last weekend and still kinda bent about it with her making out with some other guy when I felt she should be with me. So I didn't kiss and she was feeding all the signals like she wanted it. And I know she wanted it. She said her first word to me "bye." I was like no. I chased after her and stopped her. She blew me out though. I tried to N-close her when I failed to k-close her. Bad idea! She blew me out with some B.S. and didn't give me the number. I know if I had of been a man and K-closed her that was the time to pull the girl and take her home and F-close her but I wasn't man enough to do the deed and I think she sensed it in me and peaced out. Man I hate myself for wussing out!
I will get over it since I am indifferent about the whole situation anyway and this was a cougar stunner so not too big of a loss. It's too bad though this night could have gone a lot better had I not been suffering from such inner game issues. So it used to be my struggles with AA. Now I have gotten over that barrier only to find I have struggles with my inner game. This is okay though since I am feeling a lot more confident. Like I danced with a chick I thought was out of my league and she was the one girl that was feeding me hardcore I want to be "screwed" by you eyes. Man what a bust that I let her get away. But still I did what I never thought I could do. I have learned not to try and N-close a girl that is feeding me the I want to get hammered eyes. I need to be up on those type of girls and be grabbing them by the hand and taking them home.