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    Post My first 2 approaches (critique me)

    Hey guys just made my first 2 approaches and conquered my aa after the fallout with the girl I went into the game for, and well like all of you said happens I bombed them. But that's what the game is getting the curve, learning. ok so please critique these approaches and answer these questions.*

    Both of these approaches are at the mall:

    I Stuttered my way through this because my mind went completely blank.

    1st approach: I Approaches a 2 set sitting down by marble slab my target was an HB8 and her friend was a 6*

    Me: hey do you mind if I get yalls opinion on something?*

    Them: (exchanged look with her friend) sure

    Me: (I grab a chair and sit) I can't talk for long though i left my friend in the movies and his ex girlfriend is going to be back any second, so I promised him id be right back. Anyway my friends ex bought my friend pretty much everything in his apartment. tables, chairs, pillows, (etc.) and now he has a new girlfriend who says that all that stuff really creeps her out. So she told him that he has to get rid of all his stuff from his ex or she's breaking up with him.

    Them: he should totally get rid of them. Blah blah blah than they both got up and said hey we need to meet a friend at (forgot places name) so we gotta go. (while there walking away the hb8 turns and says) but yea he should definitely throw it away. *

    2nd approach: another 2 set even though I bombed the last approach all I was trying to do was at least open successfully (which I did) anyway the two girls in the set was an HB9 and her friend was a 5.

    They were walking and I stopped them with a yad approach.

    Me: hey you guys wanna see something cool?

    Them: sure (smiles)

    Me: ok close your eyes

    Them: what why? What are you gonna do?

    Me: just do it it's cool I promise.

    Them: ok (eyes closed)

    Me: ( I grab the hb9 and lead her away from her friend) I'm sorry to bother you but you are extremely sexy and I have to get to know you. (I know I farked up there I should've been more dominant and I know hb9 and above have extremely high self esteem and are used to being called sexy so I should've complimented her on something else but you guys are telling me what's wrong so I'll just keep going.)

    Her: no sorry*

    Me: (getting a little bit more confident) wow your cold your just gonna blow me off like that? At least tell me what your favorite song is

    Her: no sorry I gotta leave*

    So I just cut my losses and walked. Ok I know I screwed up alot so what I'm looking for is critique. I have body language Down by the way so I don't need any help on that. But other than that fire away and thank you*
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    Default Re: My first 2 approaches (critique me)

    You get points for overcoming aa. But everything else I feel needs work. I personally think opinion openers are outdated and they make you feel like a creeper because it's strictly under the radar. Funny thing is, most women already know what you are doing anyways especially during the day. I would highly suggest Direct Game and focus on perfecting your confident body language. Also make sure you do things in slow motion. Speak pronounced and your movements should be like water. And never forget the power of eye contact. Have the Mindset that you ate comfortable showing that you are interested in getting to know her, but you aren't sold yet. If done correctly you WILL NOT come across as a creep, but a confident man who knows what he wants.

    As for taking the girl away, I would NEVER DO THAT AGAIN lol. Its fine though. At least now you know you shouldn't do that instead of guessing if it would work. You now have experience and know what NOT to do.

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    Post Re: My first 2 approaches (critique me)

    Haha thanks what are some good direct openers? Oh have you ever heard of Bobby rios PDF the little black book of openers? That's where I read the take the girl away approach I liked it cause it makes it so you don't have to Isolate her. So what's the best way to isolate her without a wingman?
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    Default Re: My first 2 approaches (critique me)

    I agree with Batman, never try the Take Away line again...I don't know any girls that would fall for that. Besides that (1) I have to give you props for overcoming aa and trying, even after failing. (2) canned openers are good, but I think natural game works much better at malls because you know what the girl is there for...to shop.

    A few weeks ago, I went shopping at the mall for a present for my niece. I decided, to have some fun and see if I could work on any game. I'd usually go into a store, and obviously I don't know much about women's clothing. I'd walk beside I girl...pick up a shirt or whatever...look at it for a few seconds...then say to the girl
    "Hey, you don't work here do you?"
    They'll reply...no or something like that. Then I'll say,
    "ok good, because I'm looking for a gift for my niece, and I need honest opinion...not a sells rep try to get me to buy stuff. haha. I'm buying a gift for my niece. Would a 13 year old girl wear something like this?"
    From here, it's just natural game and you go with the flow. I never had a girl reject me, because 1) it's not some corny opinion line...it's an actual situational approach. 2) Most girls go to the mall to shop...not get hit on...so you take advantage of what they like to do best, shop! 3) It demonstrates dhv because it shows that your not some self centered player...even if you are ;P . But instead...you're going out of your comfort zone to get something special for your niece (or whoever you're buying something for). Now, you can change this up and say you're getting something for your sister, cousin, etc. Works either way, and make sure you have fun with it. Talk about how you weren't a cool kid when you were 13, and tease the girl saying she probably a nerd back then too so you may have to get another opinion. Anyway. that's all I have, but I'm always look for ways to improve my mall game. I never closed a girl at the mall that day...but I never really tried because I was focused on overcoming AA too, not closing. Try it out and I'd love to hear how it works.

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    Default Re: My first 2 approaches (critique me)

    Next time you go to the set ;

    Dont say stuff like May I - Can I - Would you

    Say: I need, I want, Give me your

    Show your the alphamale and get what you want without asking for it


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