*Please excuse my poor descriptive abilities*
*I've studied up A LOT on pandoras box, this was my first real attempt at putting the system to use after fully understanding it"
I tried online dating (okcupid.com) and was actually messaged by this younger girl who said I seemed "sweet." I always go though the "ignition" process assuming she's a tester until I find out otherwise. After about 2 mins I not only determined her type but got her number. My reason for getting her number was so that we wouldn't have to limit our interactions to just the website and I really wanted to get to know her.
Knowing that she was an Investor and Idealist, I knew that she would react to my interest in her which is why she very quickly responded with her number. I'm proud of the fact that i was able to show interest without being too intense but still direct.
As i got to know her more I found that the Denier aspect of her personality was the most dominant. She kept pretending like she was horny and wanted to come over but, with all the religous and fear of addiction talk we just had, I knew that she was trying to filter me out.
When got to hanging out in person (after I had got past her denying) we sat down outside at the mall, talked about her work and general small talk. I noticed her body language showed that she was more nervous at first then I was, which made me feel really confident. She calmed down after awhile and I used the "US" frame as we walked around and joked about how the american dream now tranlates to mcdonalds dollar menu or something like that.
Knowing about her NDI combination, I was very cautious, light and protective with my touch. Her family dog passed away recently and she was thinking about getting a new one. We were passing the pet store when I gently touched her shoulder and suggested we go have a look, held the door open and guided her into the store by leading her with my hand on her lower back this. was. brilliant.
After our time at the mall I was ready to go thinking I had done well and didn't want to push anything too physical on the first date. HOWEVER, she suggested we go get something to eat. After that, she suggested we go to the park; where she gave me a back rub and then proceeded to stradle me and rub herself on my...self
I'll skip the dirty details but I actually stopped her from progessing any further that night and it blew her mind. Now she comes over whenever I want and we do the deed.
Thanks Vin, Brian, and everyone else who helped put together the Pandoras Box system.
Check it out here: http://www.puaforums.com/pandora/