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    Default I'm Impressed. Awesome first try

    What's up guys - I've gotta say this website may be the best hidden gem I've stumbled on in a long time. So let me say thanks.

    Last night, while on pof I was getting frustrated with the gross lack of responses. I googled "how to message a girl on a dating website" which lead me straight to the online dating section of the site. I read through a couple of opener threads and used 2 different openers. I sent the first one to 10 different girls and the second one to about 15 - I've been getting hits off of the first opener like crazy. So much so that I was able to get a conversation going with 2 of them and close 1 on her number. Icing on the cake - woke up this morning and had another message waiting for me to read.

    I know this probably isn't the craziest Field Test story you've read but I was pretty shocked at how well, and fast, tips from this site worked. So a little shout out to you guys and another thank you!

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    Default Re: I'm Impressed. Awesome first try

    Quote Originally Posted by megaman View Post
    What's up guys - I've gotta say this website may be the best hidden gem I've stumbled on in a long time. So let me say thanks.

    Last night, while on pof I was getting frustrated with the gross lack of responses. I googled "how to message a girl on a dating website" which lead me straight to the online dating section of the site. I read through a couple of opener threads and used 2 different openers. I sent the first one to 10 different girls and the second one to about 15 - I've been getting hits off of the first opener like crazy. So much so that I was able to get a conversation going with 2 of them and close 1 on her number. Icing on the cake - woke up this morning and had another message waiting for me to read.

    I know this probably isn't the craziest Field Test story you've read but I was pretty shocked at how well, and fast, tips from this site worked. So a little shout out to you guys and another thank you!
    Congrats man!!
    Welcome to the club. I discovered this site the same way not long ago, & have picked up some great tips.

    Most of my gaming/pickup has been online for the past couple months, & it's been stellar! I don't have time to go out to "meet" girls at the moment, because of the interactions through online stuff.

    POF can be a goldmine when you approach it correctly!
    I'm using "match" currently & have been getting equally solid results....including a girl coming to my place this evening, & bringing an overnight bag

    Anyway, nice to meet ya & glad to have you aboard!


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    Default Re: I'm Impressed. Awesome first try

    Congrats guys! Every step helps. Don't make that your only Game. Take risks!

    I'm moving away from online game because the risk vs reward isn't high enough. Going out & picking up beautiful women on the spot is incredibly scary but it will increase your confidence & their attraction to you. Higher risk & reward than online dating.

    Plus NO woman really wants to meet Mr. Right online. They want to be approached in a natural, confident manner. In my experience, most of the women online have given up hope in real-world romance. That's a low hanging apple.

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    Default Re: I'm Impressed. Awesome first try

    POF has been great for me too, in the past 2 months I've been able to arrange dates at a minimum 5 out of 7 days of the week. My first dates are just a coffee or a drink. Keeping it simple and cheap allows you to constantly date, thus build your experience. Keep it up man, as long as your opening line catches their attention, usually your good. Most guys write "hey, hows it going" or on the opposite end of the spectrum "hey, here my number, wanna fark". One fun experiment that I've done in the past was to set up a fake profile with a few pictures of a really hot girl and see what guys write. Keep it up for a week or so (POF is good at detecting fake profiles, mine was taken down in a week) and take note of trends that you see. Once you see the trends, then just be different. Just being different will make your email stick out from the rest big time.

    My openers on POF are not canned. What I do is look at the girl's pictures and think of something funny to say (kind of a neg but not insulting). If I get a response, then I transition into basic small talk questions for 3-4 emails (what do you do for fun, etc...)

    Then I # close.

    My Number Close line is totally cut and paste and works 90% of the time, provided that the girl was engaged in the small talk (not 1 or two word responses to your questions).

    My # close routine begins with me asking:
    "What are you looking for in a guy on POF?". I wait for their response, which always ends with something like "I'm looking for a guy blahh blahh blahh, how about you?".

    Then I cut and paste:
    "I'm looking for a woman who has some old fashioned values, has a nice smile and a warm/fun personality. Someone who I can have mutual respect for. I like what I see in you so far, have gotten good vibes from you in the little we have chatted. Would you be cool with texting? My number is 555-555-5555, hit me up or send me your number if you'd like. Ridah28" (if you live in AZ, don't steal my line, lol, make up your own. If your too lazy too, I can help you come up with one, PM me). I'd say 9 times out of 10 I get a text about 1-5 minutes later with "hi, this is .... from POF", then it's game on , a bit of small talk via text then I shoot for a meet up (a coffee or a drink)
    Hard work equals hard bodied sexy women in your life. Picking up women = putting in the time and effort go get good at it. Most naturals have put in this time and effort without it appearing as time and effort to them!

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    Default Re: I'm Impressed. Awesome first try

    Also, in your profile, make sure to somehow put your "dealbreakers" or something along that line. It needs to be worded in a tactful and not rude way so girls aren't like "screw this guy". This may take some trial and error. It's not too hard, you need to figure out what you don't want in a woman and put it on your profile. If you want some ideas on how to do it, read several girl's profiles. A lot of girls put stuff like "I won't date a guy if he's not tall, dark, and handsome (200+lb girl writing this makes me laugh , see it damn often). Since i've incorporated a bit of this attitude in my profile (not as harsh or direct as women put it) i've gotten a lot more results and returned emails. On 1st and 2nd dates I have been asked by quite a few girls if they meet such and such standards on my profile, lol. It plays on their insecurities.
    Hard work equals hard bodied sexy women in your life. Picking up women = putting in the time and effort go get good at it. Most naturals have put in this time and effort without it appearing as time and effort to them!

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    Default Re: I'm Impressed. Awesome first try

    DareMe-
    Congrats guys! Every step helps. Don't make that your only Game. Take risks!

    I'm moving away from online game because the risk vs reward isn't high enough. Going out & picking up beautiful women on the spot is incredibly scary but it will increase your confidence & their attraction to you. Higher risk & reward than online dating.

    Plus NO woman really wants to meet Mr. Right online. They want to be approached in a natural, confident manner. In my experience, most of the women online have given up hope in real-world romance. That's a low hanging apple.
    Thanks man! Trust me I would definitely take to practice on the night scene but I'm a bit limited right now so the websites are really my go to. I feel what you're saying about the low hanging apple, I can pick that up in a good amount of profiles. Thanks for the advice and encouragement!

    Ridah28-
    That's pretty awesome that you're getting that many dates/week. I can see that I'm already making small improvements. The biggest thing I need to work on is my will to spit game and be flirt.. on the internet haha. I have no problem walking up to a girl at a bar and saying things similar to what people are saying on here but I tend to get all sincere and straight to the point in my messages. It's an interesting thought process to change but I'm working on it.

    That's a quality Number Close, I'm from OH so I'll definitely use that up haha. Problem I've had in the past couple days though is I can't seem to keep the messaging short and not drawn out. I'm seeing like 20 message conversations before I ask the girl for her number. Maybe I'm dragging it out? Any suggestions?

    Ridah I'm going to pm you.

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    Default Re: I'm Impressed. Awesome first try

    I'd save strait to the point for when you are arranging a meetup via text. Girls like a guy that's strait to the point and knows what he wants. When it comes to your meetup, find out what part of town she's and and "you" suggest the location and time then ask her if it would work for her. Find a location where you can venue change. Example, meetup for a drink at a bar that's near a coffee place. After 1hr at the bar, ask her if she's like to go for a coffee and walk her there. If she flakes on a scheduled meetup, then being strait up is the only way to go too, no Fluff talk or beating around the bush. Unless she has a good reason for flaking, and initiates contact regularly after, then I usually cut her off.

    I'll admin, to get about 5 dates a week is a lot of work. I've got to keep momentum going with 3-4 girls to pull it off. But it's fun though, and isn't that hard to get to when using POF and texting as tools. Basically, if your down to 2 girls, spend a night or two on POF writing a bunch of girls until you get meetups with 2 more. Keeping the pool of girls at around 3-4 has been working great for me.
    Hard work equals hard bodied sexy women in your life. Picking up women = putting in the time and effort go get good at it. Most naturals have put in this time and effort without it appearing as time and effort to them!


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