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    Default Very Rough Night

    Okay so last night I was at the Club and went out to run some game, the problem is I got rejected by every woman I approached last night. I made 10+ approaches and got completely ignored or utterly rejected. It didn't hurt my confidence just a little annoying. The past 2 weekends have been met with a lot less resistance and more openess but last night was way too tough. I couldn't break any headway and wasn't vibing with any girls.


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    Sadly the hottest chick HB9 I saw worth approaching was in the line and couldn't get in because it was sold out and she didn't have a ticket. So I went into the Club and it got super packed towards the end of the night. The crazy part is that there were no hot chicks there! Only HB6's. I made the most of it and tried to improve my game regardless even though these chicks were mostly pretty ugly. I did it just to see how things went. Well it didn't go well! I mean this night was horrible! I couldn't believe some of the stupid stuff girls were doing to me last night. They were pushing me away, ignoring me, walking away, spacing out, not talking, completely acting sketchy, saying they doubt being with me, just all around craziness. I have never had such low social value. I mean I even used social proofing and then approached a HB6 who saw the hot twins touching me and still nothing! Girls wouldn't bounce with me they would just run away to other guys. Every chick I walked up to just sat there and waited for me to talk. So really my approaches now are about being completely myself with no social inhibitions.

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    I also saw an Arabian knight talking to a girl I hit on earlier who ignored me and he was talking really fast, doing all the talking, make quick light touches to her back, just very smooth, and it was working! He had solid game and it was more about his body language and the way he was talking. I don't know what happened to those two but she seemed really into him and started touching his back the same way and leaning in all close. Still I saw him and her alone later and at best got a K-close maybe, I don't know.


    I will still keep approaching just from a smooth guy Mindset.

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    Default Re: Very Rough Night

    Getting rejected time and again will make you good at this. This is something we've all been through. The more you go out the better you'll be. Go out at LEAST 3 times a week. More than that would be better. Rejection=success and just keep pushing yourself. No one ever said this was going to be easy.

    Go out and have fun. Don't go out trying to "get women" Hope this helps and let me know how your progress goes.

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    Default Re: Very Rough Night

    I really hate the Club setting, it's really hard to talk to women over all the loud music and noise.

    That's why I preffer bars, and other social places.

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    Default Re: Very Rough Night

    Even though I made a thread about me not being 100% successful without my wingman. Having a wing does help in situations like this. However, when I go solo most of the times and I go from one venue to the next. If one place is not working for you go somewhere else.
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    Default Re: Very Rough Night

    Sounds like your energy could of been low due to not being in a good state due to venue and not in it to have fun. From my experience, as club game is a different beast, when I have great success I am engaging everyone male/female trying to bring everyone together in the entire place as friends and let my body language take over sexually. When I fail I don't have this vibe and regardless of my approach I get blown out.

    Just trying to talk in a club to a group trying to keep their attention really takes mastery. Girls lose there attention fast with all the light flashes, change of music, people moving.


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