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    Default Quickie

    Quick makeout
    Walk into Mansion its about 130ish, open girl with a tap on shoulder , “I saw “, pause, point, you over there”, looking to where im pointing. She gives big IOIs, introduces, I just stare at her, and project, “I’m a bad ass mother f’er and I don’t give a fark, with a healthy portion of “I am going to fark you.” I am chillllllll, speaking chill, and very little. She asks name I make her guess, “it starts with a c” (Arm around her now, very close. give her a squint eyed look when she says random incorrect names). She sits down, I give her a “oh no you didn’t look”.(we were both standing) Kino KINO while talking. Rubbing her thighs and hands. I pull her in with a hug, run ‘little sister’. Asks my name again. Ignore. More kino rubbing her leg, I get real sexual, talk into her ear “are you a good kisser?” I tell her I make the best koolaid after she complies with the little sister role play. She answers the kiss question with a shrug/nod gesture, I hesitate and she asks name before I kiss her. I jump through her “hoop” as she needs me to give in before she’ll kiss I give it to her finally, then makeout. Tongue down. I ask where she’s from, “here.” Asks where I’m from, I tell her honestly, no teasing, feel like I started supplicating and in my mind was like”we like eachother now” and thus didn’t game as hard. She starts controlling pace. I neg her because I “don’t like Bradford girls.” And back up. She does same. I think I looked like a bitch here cus I felt scared she would bail so I pull her back in and say how she lives in Barrie now. But keep it close with kino. We kiss again and it gets passionate. I say lets go walk. I don’t lead though SHE does. fark. Goes outside to friends. The bouncer almost doesn’t let me out, she clearly doesn’t care as she continues to walk away. I lost A LOT of value here. So only thing I could think of was to (when I finally got let out) walk straight up to he, pull her in and say “if you ever do that again…face to face…we’re breaking up. “I thought you were right behind me.” Again value is farking dropping. I try to lead her, move her and sh1t, but she basically lets go of me and walks up and hugs obstacle, while I stand there with d1ck in hand. So I just Fluff with one of her guy friends. She takes off, I stay and talk to group for a bit then go inside where she is hugging some other guy, she looks like she’s like she’s farking hiding from me now. farkkkkkkkkkk, that sh1t. I decide to use something I learned from Jlaix posts and start hitting on him. It works and she lets go laughing….right into another guys arms. I do same sh1t on him but his frame is tight and doesn’t phase him, so I self eject. Other then leading what should I have done better, where did I mess up? I mean passionate kissing to ditching me in 2 minutes then straight up ignoring me. Baffled any advice?

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    Default Re: Quickie

    It's a little difficult to gauge the whole "scene" but my first guess is, you came on a little too strong.
    It almost seems like you were trying to set a new record for the fastest F-Close in History.

    The confidence was obviously there, but I'm not seeing where you gave enough time to build comfort.

    I'm not sure if you were just "over-confident" & assumed everything was falling into place, or if maybe she started to feel like you were a little too cocky.

    I've learned (the hard way) that there's a balance between coming on too strong & not coming on strong enough. The good news is, it's easier to dial it back if you're pushing too hard, than it is if you're too timid & afraid of ramping up the escalation.

    But, my advice would be to slow down a bit & allow time to build more rapport & comfort.


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    Default Re: Quickie

    Another thing to consider is to keep that sexual Tension high. You were good at the beginning, but the passionate kissing probably drained a lot of it. If a k-close is your end game, then by all means pop some tongue in that sucker, but if you're looking for a date or an f-close you've got to keep the kisses slow and sensual. That sexual tension is key, youve got to hang on to it.

    Another thing about that make out. At that point the power shifted. You were playing hard to get withholding the name and leading the interaction, but once you gave in and made out with her she knew that 1) You wanted her bad and 2) that you could be manipulated like every other guy. That's why she led you around after that, cause she knew you'd follow.

    Always stay elusive. Being mysterious is one of your best tools, don't lose it. You have to separate yourself from all the other guys that'll do anything to get in her pants. Be the first to end the kiss, playfully scold her for touching you, that sort of thing. It's called Push-Pull cause you can't always be pushing pushing pushing, you've got to give her attention then take it away. Make yourself a challenge.
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    Default Re: Quickie

    Quote Originally Posted by Bandit View Post
    Another thing to consider is to keep that sexual Tension high. You were good at the beginning, but the passionate kissing probably drained a lot of it. If a k-close is your end game, then by all means pop some tongue in that sucker, but if you're looking for a date or an f-close you've got to keep the kisses slow and sensual. That sexual tension is key, youve got to hang on to it.

    Another thing about that make out. At that point the power shifted. You were playing hard to get withholding the name and leading the interaction, but once you gave in and made out with her she knew that 1) You wanted her bad and 2) that you could be manipulated like every other guy. That's why she led you around after that, cause she knew you'd follow.

    Always stay elusive. Being mysterious is one of your best tools, don't lose it. You have to separate yourself from all the other guys that'll do anything to get in her pants. Be the first to end the kiss, playfully scold her for touching you, that sort of thing. It's called Push-Pull cause you can't always be pushing pushing pushing, you've got to give her attention then take it away. Make yourself a challenge.

    Just like Bandit said about being mysterious, she knows you're interested in her so she stops trying and loses interest. It's that Cat and Ball example. When you hold the ball of yarn slightly out of the Cat's reach, she tends to probe it and play with it. But when you drop that ball, the cat looks at it, and walks away.


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