Re: What the hell am I doing wrong here?
hey man, i had this problem too..
remember few things first.. When entering a club, people will notice you, and will start to judge you immediately by your body language, social skills etc..
so if you entered with your head down, talked to nobody, went straight to the bar etc etc, girls will see you as a beta male (opposite of alpha male)
so you need to build social proof immediately when entering.
you need to have good posture - remember bodylanguage is VERY important
when you enter, have small smile on your face (makes wonders)
if you see someone you know, make big gestures like man hugging or hi5's.. and if she/he is with a group of people, just introduce yourself to them.
talk to random people, hi5 girls and guys.
if there is a certain event like a (famous DJ, Party) ask the first group of people you see when you enter the club "is this where the event is?" [other people who are judging you, think you know those people - which puts you into a social & fun person to be around, which helps your approaches)
After building enough social proof, just approach the first girl you like without taking more than 3 seconds for 2 reasons:
1) After 3 seconds, aa will start to happen
2) After few seconds pass, and she notices you, you're farked, because she might think you're shy etc ..
important not to approach directly infront of her, come from near her (NOT BEHIND)
if she's already dancing you can use cocky/funny openers on her about her dancing skills - to make her laugh at herself.. lowering her value
EDIT: forgot to say,
1) if there arent good females in that particular club, or you got rejected many times, change venue and build social proof again
2) the approach should be an opener, dont just start dancing with her.. if she rejects you like that, it gets a bit awkward hehe..
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