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Thread: NumberClose - help with my text game?

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    Default NumberClose - help with my text game?

    My wing and I went out last night (I see what Cody posted about wings getting in the way - I feel like I was just another obstacle for him and he was dlv for me)

    AI opened a set with a situatjonal comment, immediately ignored for like a half hour, then as they were walking past me to leave (inspired by the "Yad stop" if anyo e knows what that is)

    Me: "what were your names again?"
    HB: "aKrista and Krystyn"
    Me: "I just came out to hang with my bro tonight, but I would be kicking myself if I didnt get your number."
    HB: "sure, Ill give you my number."
    Me: "great, youll have a text tomorrow, and not a drunk text, a classy one *wink"

    She seems pretty high socially experienced. Hows this sound for tomorrw - with any cockyfunny I can fit in:

    Me: "you spell your name interestingly. Are you from here?"
    [Then after two more geetin-to-know-you texts]
    Me:"Now that I we're introduced lets go on a date."

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    Default Re: NumberClose - help with my text game?

    Hey Autismus,

    You got the general feel down. Read this, because it applies ESPECIALLY to this type of woman.

    You could do your thing, or I suggest texting her: "Coffee or ice cream?" When she picks one you plan your date around that.

    Coffee vs. ice cream works great because 9/10 she's down for at least one of them. Also, you can usually find nice privately owned businesses that make them, and independent restaurants make for better dates than chains.
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    Default Re: NumberClose - help with my text game?

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...ing-guide.html

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    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: NumberClose - help with my text game?

    Got a follow-up


    Pre Date (feel free to skip to the date)


    AUG 4
    Me:"Hi Kristil (nice "i"s btw) this is Autismus from the bar last night. Coffee or icecreme?"
    Her:comments on name, says "loveto" to coffee or icecreme, specifies mustbe after her visiting friend leaves town
    Me:"Sounds good. How about Tuesday"
    Her:"Sounds good. What time works for you, my schedule is open"
    Me:"3:00 is perfect for me
    Her:"Sounds good" suggests a place
    Me:"That works"
    Her: Comments on my area code
    Me:"Yeah, I'm from there" - basically


    AUG 5
    Calls me to see if I'm free. I pick up the phone omw to the beach (nice DHV reason to decline invite)

    AUG 7
    Me:"Still on for 3 at coffee shop"
    Her:"I'll be there "




    Date

    We meet up and order coffee, I broke initial silence with "Did your friend enjoy visiting town?"
    This lead the convo through interesting aspects of the town -> where she's from -> why she's here -> carreer and school choices -> DHV stories -> fam stories where from -> stories about aspects of town

    The answer to each "gettin to know you" question includes enough personal info to stimulate curiosity and invite at least two more questions - this way there are no awkward silences (tho really I fumbled and had like 3 or 7 or about 2 seconds each) - turns out she's been here for only a week and literally knows no one.


    *Bounce - from coffee to a tour of downtown


    Aspects of town -> tour of downtown where I point out bars that seem her vibe (luckily she was easy to read) -> back to coffee sho (the tour went in a circle and included many attraction-switch stories)


    *Bounce - after tour looking for a restaurant


    Go get some food -> first place (not there, shes vegitarian) -> second place (not there, it's closed today) -> third place (opens in 15 we'll wait) - been running cold reading routines (things I heard in Psychology class) while we walk


    At this point shes qualified herself and earned my IOI's so I say I'll get this check if she'll get the next one - implying she's earned a next one. Here though I saw her hesitate as if she was thinking about how I'm leaving town in two weeks and maybe we shouldn't start dating.


    *Move - from waiting area to seating in restaurant


    With this in mind I use IOD body language while working sensuality and sexuality into her cold read in a way she can personalize. ALso I've been body-language-matching since the coffee shop and now she's beginning to sink. Starting to get softened eyes - not bedroom tho.


    *Move - from seating to bar area in restaurant (because its happy hour still)

    KINO ROUTINE
    Her body language is now following mine - face touches, side leans, elbow cocks - I use this to open her receptivity - Im also getting bedroom eyes. Since her comfort is high I begin to "ebb and flow" - invade her space, then back further away, then invade closer, then turn to the side, then touch shoulder, then swivle away, -> repeat til she's leaning into my hand on her chair and knee-knocking me with my foot on her stool.

    LJBF
    I say a refrain from her earlier "I wish I wasn't leaving in two weeks. I guess nothing romantic can happen between us, but we can still have a good friendship." She says "We'll see."

    I do a "gimme your hand riddle" then the five lies game (tell her we'll decide my prize later - saving that for 'pour me a drink at your house' in C3) another "gimme your hand" riddle and this time she doesn't let go -> we hold hands with deep eye contact for about 10 seconds, then I pull her in for a kiss, then I break it off first

    She glances around the room, then sh1t test me by asking for another riddle - can't just be kino routines - so I give her an entirely verbal one while we continue holding hands.

    Once it's about used up I break of the hand holding and continue stimulating conversation -> after over four hours with no awkward silences we talk about some of the dates we should have (as she gets to know the town and I do my leaving town bucket list)

    She drops me off down the street (no car, I ride the bus xD) and k-close again at the end.

    She sends me a "I had a great time text" which I only just got cuz my phone died - I'll respond in the morning.

    Possibly could have f-closed, but I felt like trying more solid game - probly wouldn't have been too good for CB since she knows no one - also I had another date that was a sure thing tonight I'm there now.
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    Default Re: NumberClose - help with my text game?

    Awesome field report. Cody is right. I think because you number closed without any interaction I think trying to build comfort through text would have hurt you. So you chose the better option to get the instadate. Your Kino sounds on point and I love the "we can still be friends" comment. You don't always have to f-close. But if you find yourself not being able to set up another meet date again then you will be kicking yourself lol. I've been there. So I think you should set another date with her ASAP while her emotions are still high. Again great job.

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    Default Re: NumberClose - help with my text game?

    Eff eff eff!!!! Help! Im at her place, otw over she said "I dont think I should get romantically involved with you bc ur leaving in 2 weeks - and a situation I had recently that went bad" something with her dogs maybe they lived together??? Farking fark! How do I fark her????
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    Default Re: NumberClose - help with my text game?

    Ignore whatever she says. You don't always have to respond directly to a woman. Just smile and say ok and continue to escalate.

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    Default Re: NumberClose - help with my text game?

    Thannks batman! Ive beem escalating Kino, werre both drunk and she says "lets see where things go..." her ex gf was in a coma, apparently that was her thing
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    Default Re: NumberClose - help with my text game?

    Fark. Sorry for the spelling errors in that previous post ^ I only had the duration of an average pee to update from my phone in the bathroom.

    In summary I just went from C3 back to C2 due to LMR. Fark.

    I farked up. ...oh well. epic fail = epic learn...


    Going Well...

    We had a good date, we were vibing, I smiled in the bathroom mirror at the restaurant and I looked exactly like my Autismus profile picture. I used the principles of Kinos 95% Number Close to get back to her place:

    Her: "Well you got dinner and I got drinks last time, so I got dinner, where do you wanna get drinks this time?"
    Me: "Well, I'm thinkin I'll show you those Hornsyb cider/ice creme floats I told you about - we just have to stop by a publix (grocery store) on the way to wherever we'll drink - assuming of course your apartment has a kitchen??"
    Her :"Yeah, it does,"
    Me: "Great, is there a grocery store between here and there?"
    Her: "Yeah,"
    Me: "Alright, lets go."

    On the way to her house we stop off to get cyder and ice creme, I text "do you like strawberry" (inuendo) she responds positively.

    On the way back she says about how she doesn't want to get emotionally involved because of a situation of her most recent break up - apparently she's bi and has ex gf recovering from severe injury and is unable to see her - also geographic separation.


    Error 1 of 2 (missed opportunity)

    So I try to disqualify her before she does me, we end up watching a movie, her knees eventually are turning into me - AND HERE'S THE FIRST of two major errors: I didn't play the "you thought of kissing me" gambit - when she was thinking it. Instead I further disqualified her.

    So our side-to-side-sitting watching Chronicles of Narnia (the first one) becomes ends-of-couch-seating (kill me now - right?!). And I disqualify further.

    So then she says that if we stayed there and kept drinking we would probably make a bad decision and would rather see if this becomes something - but of course I'm leaving in 2 weeks and BLAH, BLAH BLAH LMR - I SEE NOW IN HINDSIGHT.


    Error 2 of 2 (my reach exceeded my grasp - should've not reached)

    So she drives me home - positively refuses to go to a bar (otw home at 11:30) and kisses good night - I SHOULD HAVE NOT KISSED HER AND LET IT BE TENSION - LET HER THINK ABOUT IT...


    Lessons:

    Anyway... this will be an interesting study in attempting to f-close after going from C3 to C2.

    It's about the journey, not the destination. My only solice can be that I make these mistakes with an HB7 so as to avoid them with an HB8.
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