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Thread: Argh, just more work for me to do now. Advice would be great

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    Unhappy Argh, just more work for me to do now. Advice would be great

    Field Report.

    10/08/2012
    Target: EVE
    Type: Day game, HB, 8

    Meeting
    First contact of the day, worked toward target that was with a male friend of both of us, instantly connected with the male friend and talked for about 3-4mintues just with him and ignored EVE until she was basically jumping up and down to be introduced into the conversation. After, a neg and playful punch in the arm from her, we continued the day by going to the cafe’ to grab male friend a coffee, on the way she wanted to me to stop her buying stuff by any means necessary and I playfully put my hands over her eyes from behind and guided her through the busy street and when I tried to let go she held my hand over her and near her face. Once getting to the coffee shop, I nicely put that I didn’t want a coffee and she suddenly said she didn’t want a coffee and sat outside with me. I did a calibration and her body language was looking great for me, facing me directly, feet uncrossed and pointing toward me when I talked, slight pupil dilation when I talked and open hands but arm slightly crossed. It seemed too good to be true. The male friend came back and we set off to ride a new motorized long-board male friend brought no long ago and felt I could use this to my advantage as i am a decent long-boarder and she used to skate heaps too. She would watch me skate around a bit then we talked about getting her on there, she refused and I slightly teased her then we moved on.
    Male friend eventually had to leave due to work, so we went to his place and then showed my fearlessness to her by playing with male friend’s pet snake to which she was rather terrified of.
    I honestly don’t think I could have asked for much more of a great start. Male friend left.

    This is where I believe I went wrong... once male friend had left, we were both together and alone she asked what we should do, I was hesitant for a second and instead of asking her if she wanted to head back to her place to play games (she is an intense gamer) and me to work on her more and provide a bit more kino, I asked if she wanted to sit in the sun and talk. I kicked myself hard because with the help of hindsight, I know that nothing good could come from talking in a park with people rushing by all the time... this was the great fall for me. We fluffed for about 10 mins and I convinced her we should go Op-Shopping for clothes for Saturday night as we were going together in theme and we were both drinking, which she doesn’t do often. So I’m figuring this will be the time to make my next move and recover.

    Things tended to go up and down from here as far as attraction; we played a little at the Op-shop, watching her try on tragic clothes that no person should have ever brought let alone wear at some stage. I used the kino game where I covered her eyes when she saw something she liked and again held my fingers when I went pull away, and meekly thought I might be able to recover from this, once I found a set of clothing for her to try on I asked for her phone to take photos of her, while waiting for her to get changed I took a few photos of myself pulling ridiculous faces so when she goes to look at the photos I will eventually take of her in an electric blue fake leather jacket which i buy for her later. I figured these photos would act as a photographic Anchor toward the time we spent with each other. We soon left and ventured onward.
    I’m going to skip through some parts because it was a long day and I am going to dot point it from here.

    • She mentioned some AFC who is super shy that she likes was happy to finally talk to because she thinks of herself as a shy kind of person, when she really isn’t, I kind of harshly neg’d her saying that she really isn’t a shy person, considering the things she wears (she likes to cosplay), and that I thought she just plays shy and insecure to look more adorable. I also wasn’t sure if she was using this comment to make me jealous and fight for her, so i didn’t bite.

    • Later we made our way back to the sun spot in the park, she started talking about her ex who was an arsehole and immediately knew this was BAD... I was falling heavily into friend-zone territory. However, I tried to make the best of it and once she was done I gave a huge compliment which pretty much followed to lines of, “See when you’re in a relationship for so long, you tend to lose your friends by extension your social value, from there you then store your personal confidence and self worth in your partner, once you come out of a relationship, you come out alone, no friends, no confidence in yourself and almost unable to function properly as a person.. But now look at you, your gorgeous! You command such a large amount of confidence that it makes people double-take as you walk past them. You have entered the Miss Galaxy pageant. You came out of an extremely destructive relationship and evolved into a beautiful, strong, adorable, confident young lady.”
    After this I could easily tell that she had butterflies, she looked at me with soft eyes, body language facing me, mouth slightly apart, dilated pupils.
    At this point what I should have done is create an anchor by grabbing both her hands, bring her in close make a fist and while sweet talking put it hard to her chest then mention i was bored of the park and move it to her place.
    What I actually did was sit there looking at her intensely.

    • We later met up with one of her friends she hadn’t seen in several years, to which I hung around for a bit to see how I could manipulate the situation to suit mine however with careful observation I realised that the friend actually wasn’t that interested in speaking with either of us and knew that my day was done. I left quickly saying that I was meeting another person and was running late. Leaving without hugs or kisses from her and quite abruptly I might add, I ended the day.



    Later I received a SMS from her saying how much of a great time she had and thanked me for the jacket I brought her and that she owed me a couple of drinks for the coffee I (accidently) brought her. Here is the message extacly
    EVE: “Thank you for the wonderful day! I had so much fun.  Thankyou for my beautiful blue jacket. I owe you drinks tomorrow night . Your a legend!”
    BamLeBam: “No problem. Glad you enjoyed yourself.”
    As I have further plans for her I really need to get her into an open position for a full-close to complete my ultimate goal, a threesome with a pivot of mine.
    It will be EXTREMELY difficult from here on and I do not mind only ending tomorrow night with a F-Close. But any suggestions on how to recover from this would be greatly appreciated.

    Shanks for the time

    BamLeBam out

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    Default Re: Argh, just more work for me to do now. Advice would be great

    Your observation skills are intriguing. Very good trait to have.

    I don't think you did anything wrong. Just maybe could've done more. I'm going to make the assumption that there wasn't much Kino Escalation. Seemed to stay on the "punch you in the arm" type of level without steering it towards sexual Kino. You can do a lot with "accidently" brushing your arm against her breasts/buttocks (yes I said buttocks). Over putting your hand on her mid back to lead her somewhere. Or making her lock her arm in yours while walking. Actually there's a special leading move I like to do. May have to create a post on it :P

    However, maybe you feel you did enough kino escalation. You aren't really in the red zone to begin with so I wouldn't beat yourself up too much.

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    Default Re: Argh, just more work for me to do now. Advice would be great

    Ye, I agree. The lack of Kino was defiantly a big problem in this. Ill read up on a heap of techniques today and try them tonight

    Blargh i feel im going to a dark place... and i like it,


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