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    Default My first Solo Sarging - Critique and feedback!

    Hey guys, I have been studying the game for the past month and I normally have a decent game that I use on most girls that I meet. I would normally do it for practise but I was bored last night and decided just to go to a club that was a 30 minute walk from campus. I went in with a mixture of "what have I got to lose attitude" mixed in with "come on, you have studied the game properly, you know your routines!". I set myself a minimum target of 5 approaches to make. If I can get some feedback to how I did on my first real solo sarge then that would be awesome!

    I decided that since I was soloing that I could go with the missing friend opener, the first two sets seemed disinterested and made up excuses. I was feeling bad and wanted to say "screw it, this is not working". I told myself to man up and that its no big deal, just keep trying.

    I went around the club looking for sets to open and when I went outside to the smoking area I saw a 2 set just waiting to be opened, so I did what all PUAs do and that is to get out of my comfort zone and just do it.

    They seemed very stuck up, rude and not very intelligent but I persisted through the storm and made them laugh a bit, it wasn't until the target mentioned she had a boyfriend that I knew this was going to be a hard set. I decided to go with cocky-funny, mocked both of the girls lack of ambition and pretended to walk away when she mentioned her boyfriend and replied with "what you think I'm here to hit on you ladies, I genuinely think you're interesting (said to target)" After a few more minutes of fluff I decided to let them go dance because that's all they really seemed interesting in doing. I didn't even want their numbers because they just seemed boring and lacked a lot of intelligence (My target didn't even know what a county was in the UK, everyone I know learnt that when they where young).

    I went upstairs to look for more sets, I was walking past and this small, cute girl started saying something to me, her friends where there aswell. I completely acted the whole thing, I made it look like I was confused (with a straight face and weird eye contact) and walked away which seemed to offend her slightly with her friends making fun of her.

    I decided that I already showed an un-needy attitude along with being comfortable with women, so I went in and said "Sorry sweetheart, I didn't hear what you said and I'm looking for my best friend. It was a little rude of me to walk a way like that and I'm not that kind of guy". She started saying something along of the line of "its ok, you seem like a nice guy" all I heard afterwards was "bla bla bla". The music was too loud. I decided to make a ballsy move, I grabbed her hand and lead her away from her friends (Everyone around was astonished as to what I did). She was leaning in, giving me IOIs like getting really close and wanting to be hugged but the music was too loud to even carry a sentence. I asked her outside but she didn't want to leave her friends for some reason. She didn't have a phone on her. I thought this was a lost cause even though she seemed very interested. I went for a kiss-close and it was successful, was a shame that I couldn't get her number despite what I think was genuine attraction.

    I went back outside to the smoking area and found another 2 set. I went up and tried to talk but the friend wasn't interested to talk. I said "Ok, I just wanted to know if you saw my mate but if your busy than that's cool (took that line from mystery)". She said "wait" and grabbed my hand and asked what my friend looked like, so I started explaining the story to them both and luckily enough the cockblocker's phone started ringing which allowed me to say "Let her take that call and we can talk" I jumped out of the missing friend and went on the love spell routine. I explained that it was in Latin and she went "I know Latin", I was speechless, this girl was a HB9, tall, awesome light brown hair, great smile and now she was also clever! I hit the jackpot, all night of not getting anywhere I'm making progress with the best girl I've approached all night!

    I replied to her knowing Latin with "Wow, you must be intelligent, what are you planning on doing?" We fluffed for a bit about University and told her I only live down the road but I'm from London originally. She's heading to University in September and she was a year younger than me. I asked her if she wanted to play the cube. Ran it perfectly, told her she was interesting and different to most people I've met. She asked how I knew how to read minds and that. I went on a dhv story about a girl back home who lived on my road and how she was very intuitive. I seemed like a legitimately interesting dude to her. I went on to say "You know I can also do palm reading", she was scared to which I said "You don't need to be nervous darling, I can already see you're a good person but you never know, you may be really weird (neg)" I took her hand and said "You know what it is far too dark to read your hand but you seem really interesting so I'll make you a deal, how about you give me your number and we can hang out later this week and find out more about each other". She said that sounds good, so I said to her "Give me your number and I will call you in the next few days". She eagerly went through her phone and gave me her number. I said "You don't have a boyfriend or anything like that? (thought it might be a clever hint while taking advantage of her interest)". She answer bluntly with "No!". We continued to fluff for a bit about what she does for fun and I ran another DHV story about how I do public speaking. Her friend finally came back and was complaining about her ass hurting and she wanted a massage from me, She took my hand and tried to make me rub it in front of all these AMOGs and AFCs. This was an awkward situation so I attempted it and said "You know what, this is not going to work". I finally left it there and said to Jess (my target) that I will see her later and I will call her and left the area all together (No hug, the girls where already walking away). I felt like a new man. I did not expect to get the hottest girls number that I approached but I think my game works on more intelligent women (something that Style mentioned in the game). I looked extremely confident and people started treating me better in the club.

    I opened up a few more sets and did fairly well, my confidence was on a different level. I got one more number and had opened up 3 more sets which was 8 for the night (3 more than I originally planned). I would of got 3 numbers from the girl on the dancefloor but shit happens so I'm fine.

    I just wanted to know how I did and if I this Jess girl has genuine interest in me and if she's not going to flake when I call her (Missing out on a hug and the weird ending has put a bit of doubt in my head) but I really like her and it would be awesome if I can see what she's like and if she's relationship material. So if I can get any feedback than I would be extremely grateful! Cheer guys!

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    Default Re: My first Solo Sarging - Critique and feedback!

    Sounds pretty impressive to me mate, where in the uk are u? I'm looking for someone to sarge with in Lincoln kudos to you for going out on your own I haven't worked up the courage to do so yet lol.

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    Default Re: My first Solo Sarging - Critique and feedback!

    Thanks for the feedback buddy, but I don't live anywhere near Lincoln despite knowing where it is. I actually live in Kent, in the Medway towns (real shit hole but the girls aren't bad if you got standards), its fun due to all the AFC try hards and wanna-be chavvy AMOGs and I bring a fresh light of confidence and intelligence!

    As for you not gaining the courage to go out I was actually scared alot before I went out but then I knew about what I can do and if the other PUAs can do it then why can't I? Just go in with a "I have nothing to lose" attitude because chances are you will never see the girls ever again. Some of the less successful sets I open laughed and giggled as I walked away but I didn't look back because I knew what they where missing and they where definitely not worth my time!

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    Default Re: My first Solo Sarging - Critique and feedback!

    Well I'm in Cardiff ATM cus I'm not at uni, soo most the sets I open in clubs here I do so on my own cus my wing here has some serious confidence issues, it's just actually going out on my own I can't do lol, yeah that's deffo the attitude to have mate, I have discovered that walking away sometimes works really well, especially if you are getting sullen silences and lack of interest then they tend to call you back. Which feels awesome

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    Default Re: My first Solo Sarging - Critique and feedback!

    Fair play I guess pal but having a wing can be damaging and feel like carrying dead weight (its an analogy I use to compare with football). I have a few friends on campus but very limited like 6 guys and 4 girls (I use them to practise my games with them so its in my head and I remember them) but the guys either already have LTRs or are AFCs.

    I just feel like the exception, so I just went out on my own. The missing drunk best friend opener works wonders due to the fact its safe and doesn't make me come on too hard to them. I would follow this up with a dhv about myself really caring from my friends and I would tell my target she looks like she has the similar attitude which builds rapport. You can follow this up with Styles best friends test, did it to 5 of the sets I opened and they thought I already understood them. Telling you man, just do it (like the nike slogan) and you will see improvements in your overall confidence and game!

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    Default Re: My first Solo Sarging - Critique and feedback!

    I do like the best friends test, works really well, im Guna really work my game when I get back to uni, I don't like Cardiff as a night out to be honest far to many arsehole AMOGs lol.

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    Default Re: My first Solo Sarging - Critique and feedback!

    I have some mates who go Cardiff University and said its pretty fun, plus I have seen some of their photos and they're AFCs getting with some really good looking ladies. If you're unsure on how to deal with AMOGs you can always read up on ways to Disarm them and make them look like real try hards! Best thing I do is to make friends with them and relate to them (helps because of my passion for football) or just say stuff like "what would give her out of 10?" this gains instant rapport and they will give you the respect you deserve. If not you can always walk away.

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    Default Re: My first Solo Sarging - Critique and feedback!

    Oh yeah there are a lot of hot birds here, but without being disrespectful some of them.....especially during the holidays when it isn't just students are a little bit thick and can't quite get the idea of a conversation, I don't mind Cardiff as a night out, just prefer uni in Lincoln

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    Default Re: My first Solo Sarging - Critique and feedback!

    I reckon the ending is a good thing. You showed higher value by being able to walk away. Also, there is a fair amount of investment that goes along with the cube if you get it right. You seem to have a pretty solid game and attitude, and I like the Number Close. If anything she will remember you for the ending.

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    Default Re: My first Solo Sarging - Critique and feedback!

    Ye I always go in with a gentlemen's attitude but knowing I'm the prize (In a James Bond way), just looking at the way people like Mystery and other high level PUAs talk helps because it rubs off and you pick charisma. People get the idea I am a public speaker because of the passion and clarity I have in my voice so it works so well!


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