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    The-Pos is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default flip,flop,flup,Sarg gone wrong

    This is my first feild report too bad it is negative.
    I went out to the club tonight with my boys, my Approach Anxiety was somewhere in the background. But managed to open this subtle HB8 convo went a little sopmething like this

    Me: hie been lookin at your whole outfit and can't figure out y u wearin pink shoes.?
    Her: it is called colour blocking
    Me: well it seems u really good at colour blocking .can I wear a purple shirt with an orange cap
    Her: if its comfortable yes.!
    Me: so why is your Bf leaving u alone
    Her: he Is my cousin
    Me interesting u seem like a couple no.
    Her: no

    My tounge got tied for a couple of times with those awkward moments of silence and tryin to figure wat to say next and failed to build rapport and comfort..the point is I am in my bed alone and that sucks considering my friends call me a natural. Just need to turn on that inner charm.

    There has to be some thing to say after the opener that just make everything blend..

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    Cody is offline PUA All Star (RETIRED)
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    Default Re: flip,flop,flup,Sarg gone wrong

    It comes with time. You did well, seriously.
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    Root90 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: flip,flop,flup,Sarg gone wrong

    Good job! The most important thing is getting past the aa and making the approach. I am just starting off and my biggest challenge has been keeping the conversation going. I have this thing that I do now, it doesn't matter on the set I never parachute. I drag it out till there practically saying F*** off lol

    This has helped my AA and I have improved my convo skills. I usually make assumptions instead of asking questions.

    Instead of "Where are you from?"

    I would say something like "Your from the bay area? You have that real laid back vibe."

    During bar game I have gotten better results going direct then in-direct, just mix it up and see what works for you.


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