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    Default Awesome night but need a lot of critique

    What's up guys...awesome (I think) night for me but I really need critique on how I could have made it a k-close or an f-close

    So, I started at Bar A where I planned to find some girls to bounce w/ for Social Proof to Bar B...I was unsuccessful inside the bar but I ended up meeting some old (somewhat ghetto and fat) chicks outside hahah (They really weren't that gross but they were mid 30's)

    FIRST QUESTION: Is it better to show up to a bar/club alone or w/ a set of "not-so-good-looking" girls??

    Anyway, I get to Bar B (the big place) and open up sets left and right, HOWEVER, I find that I talk a lot more to guys because I feel more comfortable w/ them than girls.

    SECOND QUESTION: How many guys is too many guys to talk to? haha

    Throughout the entire night I'm basically just testing some new techniques both at the bar and on the dance floor and end up getting some number of HB6's and 7's but no real hotties...when I tried talking to more attractive women they either blew me off or played a little then left.

    THIRD QUESTION: I know my game is solid but is this a sign to neg harder w/ more attractive women? Or any other suggestions?

    The night ended on probably the BEST and WORST situation of my life....I was chatting up an HB8 and she was FEELING me so hard...she kept snuggling up to me and all that good stuff HOWEVER, she wouldn't give me her number (she was 30..I'm 21 and she kept saying I was too young) however all of her body language was telling me otherwise...I'm not lying when I say this girl was all over me, but when it came to the Mystery Kiss Close she said No and I continued on...

    HERE is where I'm unsure of what I should have done...

    The HB kept "playfully" asking me to buy a drink and I kept saying, "I'll buy you a drink after you buy me one"...she would laugh hysterically and snuggle up to me but then continue to ask me...there were times where I thought to myself, "If I just give in and buy her a drink...maybe she'll open up to me" but i never gave in...Should I have?

    Anyways, I played some goofy games w/ her like Kill, Marry, Fark & did the ring routine on her but by the end of the time I was with her, the attraction just wasn't there and I went to the bathroom after she wouldn't give me her number again...

    I'm kind of distraught as to how I could have better handled this because her Body Language and words were telling me one thing (she wanted to fark my brains out) while her actions were saying another (she was a good girl)

    What should I have done?

    THANKS GUYS!!!
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    Default Re: Awesome night but need a lot of critique

    FIRST QUESTION: Is it better to show up to a bar/club alone or w/ a set of "not-so-good-looking" girls??
    second option (unless they are so damn ugly :P).. going to bar/club alone required you to have very solid game and start introducing yourself to different people you don't know immediately, and also stay with some of them.. i would prefer having a group of friends which i can turn to.. than havng to search for 1 byforce!

    SECOND QUESTION: How many guys is too many guys to talk to? haha
    no limit IMO.. talking to the guys in a mixed group is still good, because you can prove that you are the AMOG and also DHVing yourself - females attracted to you.. but you need to talk to the girls aswell .. simple chitchat just to increase a bit comfort (she might be attracted to you already if you DHVed yourself with the males of the group) try something like: (its simple opener with no pressure and she won't expect you might pick her up, because you are just 'introducing' yourself to all the group)
    'hey im... , whats your name?'

    THIRD QUESTION: I know my game is solid but is this a sign to neg harder w/ more attractive women? Or any other suggestions?
    maybe when you approach a HB 6/7 you are not really attracted to her, so you are relaxed and more confident.. and you won't be showing any signs of neediness..

    yes use NEGs, try opening with a neg and turn around or walk away (a little).. some of them actually chase you, so they can use a comeback on you by that time, you isolated her already and you can get your game on.

    but i never gave in...Should I have?
    you should never .. i repeat NEVER, buy her a drink unless you are in a relationship, or you are 100%sure to f close (if thats your intention) that night.

    as for age difference.. if she says you're too young try something like :
    (ive gotten these from these forums .. i did not make them up)
    1)'yeah I notice...poor you' say it in a playful manner!
    2) 'well maybe your too old'
    3) 'Oh ok, well ill give u a minute to get over it then.'
    4) 'you should be able to handle me then'
    5) 'why do u think I hit on older women, girls my age are just no fun '

    hope i helped you a little bro
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